3-2-1 Tuesdays with Ms Niv

Issue #261, 8th July 2025

Am I approaching this with curiosity rather than certainty?

This single question cuts across all three roles because it shifts our mindset from passive consumption to active engagement. When we are curious, we naturally ask follow-up questions, look for connections, and seek to understand rather than just get through the moment.

As a parent, it means wondering “What is my child really trying to tell me?” instead of assuming you know. As a teacher, it’s asking “What are my students discovering that I hadn’t considered?” rather than just delivering information. As a student, it’s approaching material with “How does this connect to what I already know?” instead of just memorizing for the test.

Curiosity transforms any situation – whether it’s a difficult conversation, a challenging lesson, or a confusing concept – into an opportunity for genuine learning and growth. It’s the difference between going through the motions and actually extracting value from every experience. What’s your view on this? Have you been more often curious or certain recently?

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Three Images of the Week

Two Thoughts of the Week

Seize the moment of excited curiosity on any subject to solve your doubts; for if you let it pass, the desire may never return, and you may remain in ignorance. William Wirt

A lot of our creative flow comes from a place of curiosity and exploration. It often feels like we’re excavating and asking questions and not just giving answers but really just exploring. Adrianne Lenker

One Video of the Week

In this deeply inspiring talk, Dr. Tanu Jain shares a powerful message about the beauty and necessity of embracing change. With raw honesty and wisdom, she walks us through the idea that life doesn’t follow a perfect timeline. Instead, our growth often comes through uncertainty, failure and the courage to start over. Whether you’re a student, professional, or someone navigating life’s transitions, this talk will remind you that it’s okay to change, pause, and reinvent yourself. Dr. Tanu Jain holds a Bachelor of Dentistry degree from Subharti College and successfully cleared the Civil Services examination in 2014. Throughout her career, she has maintained a commitment to social service initiatives and has garnered recognition for her motivational speaking engagements, particularly renowned for her mock interview sessions. Dr. Jain recently resigned from her professional position to establish the Tathastu Institute of Civil Services. Dr. Tanu Jain teaches philosophy and ethics and actively engages with various social organizations, contributing significantly to societal advancement. Her overarching goal is to mentor and cultivate students of strong character, instilling in them a dedication to family, society, and the nation, thereby fostering individuals in whom the country can take.

Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week

Reading Aloud is a multivitamin for kids and a proxy for a good start too. If you do it each night as a parent or daily in your classroom, you can build their brains and inspire a lifetime of literary delight, family bonding and accomplishment. 

Of course, there’s more to the story. Reading aloud, though valuable, isn’t everything. It’s time to move beyond fairy tales and to root your own reading story in reality.

There are countless ways that a parent/teacher can make a difference early on, but these are the most powerful ways to leverage as infants and toddlers grow into preschoolers and kindergarteners.

Let’s discuss the research based top six parent levers for literacy each week:

Conversation:

Want your child’s IQ and academic performance to land off the charts? Then launch their learning language development with lots of conversation when they’re young. It’s been proven that kids who engage in more back and forth dialogue with adults when they’re 18 to 24 months old tend to have a significantly higher IQ and better language skills as adolescents than kids who lack frequent back and forth adult child conversations.

The data showed that talkative toddlers with talkative parents/teachers grew into middle schoolers with better reasoning, logic, problem solving abilities, verbal comprehension and vocabulary skills than kids who had experienced fewer “conversational turns” during the pivotal time frame.

It’s amazing to see how verbal exchange works their brain-magic to boost language skills, cognitive capacity and academic achievement down the road. Also, there are some suggested strategies to nurture a child’s linguistic development from day one by exchanging words, gestures, and expressions with them as it is not easy to do in the age of smartphones and social media. But your every effort and attention will show up in their IQ, listening comprehension, and vocabulary scores when they are teens.

Stay tuned for the continuation of this conversation until next week. Till then…

Meenu Gera

Consulting home and school librarian reading guide

Showcase: Thrive Beyond School – A unique STEAM education project for very young learners.

The children took part in a fun, hands-on learning activity about where fish live. They showed a lot of interest and creativity as they talked about what makes a good home for fish and shared their own ideas and stories. Using recycled materials, they built fish habitats, which also helped them learn about taking care of the environment. As a group, they showed a good understanding of how fish, their homes, and nature are all connected.
Havishka: 7 years 3 months old
Tashi:7 years old
Tara: 6 year old

Dear reader,
I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.

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