Issue #270, 9th September 2025
Are we raising kids for ‘now’ instead of ‘yet’? the power of ‘not as yet’ v/s F (Failed) or ‘needs improvement’ is life alterning for students as it calls for a shift of mindset. Have you experienced it as a teacher or parent? have you tried it in your conversations with the child or in in your class report card? Let us praise wisely, reward for efforts, strategy and progress, get smarter over time tackling challenges beyound their comfort zones. For 21st century challenges are anything but known or easy. That’s the world our children and students going to enter and live in. Effort and difficulty must make us feel smarter, as that is when we make new neurons and brain connections. Struggle should not make us or our children feel dumb. Let us together create spaces filled with ‘yet’.
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Two Thoughts of the Week
“You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose.” – Dr. Seuss
“It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.” – Confucius
One Video of the Week
Carol S. Dweck is a leading researcher in the field of motivation and is the Lewis and Virginia Eaton Professor of Psychology at Stanford. Her research focuses on why students succeed and how to foster their success. More specifically, her work has demonstrated the role of mindsets in success and has shown how praise for intelligence can undermine students’ motivation and learning. She has also held professorships at and Columbia and Harvard Universities, has lectured to education, business, and sports groups all over the world, and has been elected to the American Academy of Arts and Sciences and the National Academy of Sciences.
She recently won the Distinguished Scientific Contribution Award from the American Psychological Association, one of the highest awards in Psychology, as well as six other lifetime achievement awards. Last Spring, the White House held an conference on her work and both President Obama and Michelle Obama refer to her work in their speeches on education. Her work has been prominently featured in such publications as The New Yorker, Newsweek, Time, The New York Times, and The London Times, and the Manchester Guardian, with recent feature stories on her work in the San Francisco Chronicle and the Washington Post, and she has appeared on such shows as Today, Good Morning America, NPR’s Morning Edition, and 20/20.
Her bestselling book Mindset (published by Random House) has been widely acclaimed and has been translated into over 20 languages.
Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week
Phrase Making and Sentence Building from 2 to 3 years
By the time kids reach 24 months, their vocabularies have doubled in size, and they begin pairing words to create two-word phrases and sentences, such as want ball. They may say up to three hundred words and understand even more. They are watching, copying what their playmates are doing and may even (gasp!) share their toys a bit. At this point, your little one’s conceptual understanding may be taking off.
In choosing and sharing books, keep in mind that while there’s a time and place for longer children’s literature, you shouldn’t overlook the power of five-minute stories read on a regular basis. It’s not the length of the story but the cumulative impact of engaging with you and with print and oral language that enriches a child’s life and skills. Many of us learn to love short, colorful books because they can be read in a minute. Knowing that you can make an impact in a minimal amount of time gives many parent the nudge they need to read to their child in the moment, versus putting it off in the hope of finding the “perfect” time. Once you get started, you can always do repeated reading of the same books (toddlers love and benefit from repetition) or read multiple short stories.
Book behavior, Print Awareness and Writing:
· Enjoys looking at books independently
· Pretends to rea familiar books
· Recalls book characters and straightforward storylines
· Recognizes logos in the environment (e.g., McDonald’s)
· Identifies a letter or letters in their own name
· Points to and discusses pictures in books
· Scribbles with intentional circles and dots
Happy Reading!
Career assessment, guidance, and placement strategies:
If you’re a student currently in Grade 11 and planning to apply to universities abroad, you’re at a critical point in your academic journey. With around 10 months before applications open, this is your window to showcase who you are beyond your grades. College admissions teams are not just looking for academic scores—they’re looking for potential, personality, and purpose.
Here are 8 things students can do to strengthen their profile for college admissions:
Building your profile is not about doing “more”—it’s about doing things that matter, and doing them with purpose and consistency. You already have a story—now is the time to sharpen it and show the world who you are and who you’re becoming.
Fermata Career Solutions inspires young individuals aged 13 to 30 to unlock their potential through focused and customised career and college counseling. With expertise in University Readiness, CareerGym, and Master Parenting, the experts empower you to pursue your dreams and shape your future with confidence. More about us on http://www.fermata.com
I Think, I Wonder, I Ask
When Translation Sparks Bigger Questions: Reflections from a Reading Session
Continuing my reflections on Booker Prize- winning literature and the relevance of Heart Lamp to students from last week’s blog, this week my thoughts return to a moment that surprised me during a discussion at my school on Deepa Bhasti’s approach to its translation.
As we explored the book, we observed how Deepa’s translation did more than carry words across languages- she carried worlds. Unlike many translators who smoothen cultural edges for “global” readers, Deepa preserved the rhythm, nuance and texture of the original Kannada stories. Her choice not to italicize Kannada words was striking.
After the reading, a student asked, “Does using Kannada or any local language words in English essays make us less global?” A simple question opened the door to a rich discussion on translation, authenticity and how we perceive the “other”. That question grew into a larger reflection: Why do we learn languages- especially foreign ones? Is it only to fit into the global economy, to grow businesses, or to become market-ready global citizens? Or can languages be bridges of connection, shaping how we perceive and understand new people, places and cultures? Do we compare and rank what we encounter, or can we approach differences with humility- connecting across them and enriching our own lives in the process?
For me, this was the moment when a reading session became more than reading- it became a mirror, a provocation, a hook for deeper dialogue. For students, such moments urge them to question and shape the kind of global citizens they wish to become. For adults, they remind us to pause and reflect on how we live in a diverse world. And for educators, they are a call to reimagine education- not merely as preparation for jobs and economies, but as preparation for life with people and planet.
Three questions for you…
How does reading literature from another culture change the way you see your own?
How can we design learning experiences that honor students’ cultural roots while also preparing them to engage meaningfully with the wider world?
When we encounter differences- in language, culture or even nature- do we compare to decide what’s “better”? or do we seek connection and mutual respect?
Dear reader,
I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.
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Issue #269, 2nd September 2025
What assumptions am I holding that might be limiting the growth of myself and/or others?
As a student: Challenge your beliefs about your own capabilities, learning methods, or what’s “too hard” for you; As a teacher: Push yourself to question preconceptions about students’ potential, effective teaching methods, or rigid curriculum approaches; As a parent: Try to recognize when your expectations, fears, or past experiences might be constraining your child’s development. Here are some provocations for you, read on.
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Two Thoughts of the Week
“Remember, we see the world not as it is but as we are. Most of us see through the eyes of our fears and our limiting beliefs and our false assumptions.” Robin S. Sharma
“When you’re surrounded by people who share the same set of assumptions as you, you start to think that’s reality. “Emily Levine
One Video of the Week
Why do we fixate on the things we can see immediately when we crave change?
In this passionate talk Robert Greene shares the key to transforming ourselves and also talks about his own personal transformation and his path to becoming a bestselling author. About Robert Greene Robert Greene is the internationally best-selling author of The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, The 33 Strategies of War and The 50th Law (with rapper 50 Cent). His books have been translated into 17 languages. He has worked in New York as an editor and writer at several magazines; and in Hollywood as a story developer and writer. He has lived in Brixton, Paris, and Barcelona; speaks several languages, and worked as a translator. He tweets as @RobertGreene
Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week
Books at the age from 12 to 24 months:
At this age your kiddos are stacking blocks, pouring sand and water, nesting cups and hustling to combine a lot of different skills. Meantime, they’re gasping for the words they need to express themselves too. Gestures do come into play in a bigger way now. They are already doing some pretty sophisticated coordination of their sounds, gestures and eye gaze to get your attention. Your little one may even start following your directions to pick up toys or point to an object they want. All of this early speech and vocabulary learning is critical for later reading, because for an emergent reader to make sense of a word in print, they need to have heard it before. (Or, usually, many times before). Selecting books that reflect daily life deepens the learning at this age. Little narratives about kids playing, putting on clothes or having breakfast may pique your toddler’s interest. And some children’s authors also take care to make first-word books that are entertaining for parents too by building in as much humor and suspense as a board book can handle. You can even make your own books featuring pictures of friends, family and familiar places. That’s personal relevance in teaching at its best.
Selected 12–24-month milestones: Book Behaviour and Writing:
· Handles standard books
· Turns pages in books
· Enjoys being read to
· Recognizes familiar book’s cover
· Points to and names familiar characters and objects in books
· Points to things they want you to name
· Holds and makes marks with crayons
It is suggested to start creating their personal library at this age by selecting appropriate titles by a professional library expert. And keep on adding titles to their library as they grow older.
Happy Reading!
Meenu Gera
Consulting home and school librarian reading guide
Career assessment, guidance, and placement strategies:
Study in Japan
Do you know?
Japan is globally recognised for technological innovation across several sectors:
1. Robotics & Automation: Especially in industrial automation robots companies like Fanuc, Yaskawa, Kawasaki, and ABB Japan dominate the market. Japan also excels in humanoid and service robots, with notable examples as Honda’s ASIMO and SoftBank’s Pepper.
2. Automotive Industry: Japan is a global leader in automotive engineering and production. Toyota is the largest car manufacturer, while Honda, Nissan, Subaru, and Mazda are renowned for their reliability, innovation, and fuel efficiency.
3. High-Speed Rail (Shinkansen): Japan set global standards with the Shinkansen (bullet trains), famous for high-speed, punctuality, and safety. Japan also advises and collaborates on high-speed rail projects worldwide.
5. Precision Engineering & Materials Science: Japan excels in producing high-precision components for aerospace, medical devices, and semiconductors, along with advanced materials and specialty chemicals.
Top universities in Japan offering undergraduate and postgraduate programs in the areas of Robotics & Automation, Automotive Manufacturing, Consumer Electronics & Gaming, High-Speed Transportation, and Precision Manufacturing include:
Fermata Career Solutions inspires young individuals aged 13 to 30 to unlock their potential through focused and customised career and college counseling. With expertise in University Readiness, CareerGym, and Master Parenting, the experts empower you to pursue your dreams and shape your future with confidence. More about us on http://www.fermata.com
I Think, I Wonder, I Ask
When a Booker Prize Winner emerges from my city, as an educator, I feel the responsibility to make this work matter for Gen Z students…

A sense of pride fills me when I think about the Booker Prize being awarded to a writer from my own city- Heart Lamp, by Banu Mushtaq (originally written in Kannada), translated by Deepa Bhasti. What makes this even more significant is that the book has its roots in the Bandaya Sahitya (Rebel/Dissent Literature) movement, which opened up space in Kannada Literature for stories that were unheard, raw, authentic, and deeply contextual—stories of survival, resistance, and dignity.
For me, reading Heart Lamp was not just about its literary merit or the brilliance of Deepa’s translation; it was about re-confronting the themes of resistance, power, identity, marginality, and the courage to question.
As an educator, I felt the need to engage students with this literary work to sensitize—to help them see the links between those themes and the realities that still shape our world today. But here is the challenge- how do I make a piece of literature that feels rooted in another time and context, and connect with students today? For many of them, the struggles and issues reflected in these works are not part of their lived experience and their natural spaces of consuming content and expressing themselves are social media platforms rather than books.
Here is what I think we can do- Creating hooks and bridges—between past and present, rebellion and responsibility, rootedness and global awareness. More importantly, creating spaces for students to question, voice their thoughts, and act with responsibility. And perhaps, the real way to honor such a work is not only to celebrate its global recognition, but to use it as a mirror- asking ourselves and our students what it means for our lives here and now!
Three questions for you…
• Do you think questioning authority always leads to progress? Why or why not?
• The book gave space to voices that were long ignored. Whose voices do you think are missing in today’s media/social media?
• What issues from your school, city or community do you wish the world would hear?
– Dr Shreelakshmi, Alumni and Academic Director, Vijaya School Hassan
Showcase: Thrive Beyond School – A unique STEAM education project for very young learners.
The children learned about fossils and paleontologists through a story and hands-on exploration. They discovered that fossils were formed when dinosaur bones were buried under mud and rocks and turned into stone over time. By pressing toy dinosaurs into clay, they understood the process of molding, and by filling the molds with plaster, they experienced casting. They observed textures, shapes, and details like toes and tails, then carefully cleaned and studied their own fossil replicas. Through drawings and reflections, they expressed what they noticed about fossilization.
Samyuktha: 7 years 4 months Neev & Mayra: 7 years Tashi: 6 years 11 months Tara: 5 years 11 months Krisha: 3 years

Dear reader,
I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.
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Issue #268, 26th August 2025
When you move school/home/city/country, what attitude do you take with you?
Are you curious about the new place, approach it with the thought of learning new things and take it as a way of moving onward and forward or are you anxious about the move, think that you might not be able to learn the skills needed to cope in a new enviornment and want to take your memories and materials from your current place to the new one to make it same as your earlier one?
How do you start over?
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Two Thoughts of the Week
“Seedlings of life sometimes come out of the fertiliser of what was left behind.”
― Gillian Duce, Nuada
“Your new start is only as far away as your fear has parked it.”
― Craig D. Lounsbrough
One Video of the Week
3 lessons on starting over | Matt Field | TEDxPrague
From a remote village in Kenya to diplomatic receptions in Prague, this is the story of how starting over—again and again—shaped not just a career, but a life. Having spent over two decades navigating the process of integration in eight different countries, he is well-placed to offer answers to a range of questions: How can we approach the unknown without fear, and even with curiosity? How can we embrace the new while shaping our own path? And what does success look like in a changing world? Ambassador Matt Field OBE, a career diplomat and the British Ambassador to the Czech Republic, has undergone a transformation not just once, but multiple times, across continents, cultures, and identities.
Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week
Books at the age from 6 to 12 months:
As we continue the discussion of how the language-leaning journey continues in the latter half of the first year, through back-and-forth exchanges between you and your baby. By this age, babies may respond to simple requests, reaching for things, then passing the objects from hand to hand or hand to mouth.
And now, believe it or not, is prime time to make read-aloud interactive. One study found evidence that when moms directed more questions to their 10-month-olds while reading stories, their children had better expressive and receptive language skills at 18 months old than children whose mothers had directed fewer questions to them.
Toddlers who’d been peppered with questions like What’s that? Where’s the doggie? Do you wanna turn the page? Ready? During storytime as babies showed a greater ability to understand what others said to them. They also showed a higher capacity to communicate their needs, thoughts, and ideas using words, phrases and gestures. So there’s value in reading books and asking related questions, even before kids can answer fully. Through being read to, babies learn language, background knowledge, the concept of print, new words and more.
Book Behaviour
· Grasps books using their thumbs
· Pats, strokes, scratches books
· Uses feet or mouth to touch books
· Sees as well as adults
· Directs their eye gaze to large, bright and/or high contrast pictures in books
· Points to pictures in books
So it is really important to start reading to your child at an early stage of life.
Happy Reading!
Meenu Gera
Consulting home and school librarian reading guide
Career assessment, guidance, and placement strategies:
Harvard University, founded in 1636, has an incredible story that begins with John Harvard, a young minister who, in 1638, generously left his library and half of his estate to this up-and-coming college. From its very beginning, Harvard aimed to nurture knowledgeable and virtuous leaders for the new society forming in colonial America. Today, the “Harvard brand” is recognized worldwide, representing intelligence, success, and opportunity—a true ticket to influence in politics, academia, and the business world.
Harvard looks for students who will thrive in its intellectually rigorous, socially engaged, and leadership-oriented environment. Admissions officers assess both academic excellence and personal qualities to determine who will be a good fit.
Here’s how Harvard identifies a strong fit:
Harvard seeks passionate and thoughtful individuals who will shape and be shaped by the community.
Fermata Career Solutions inspires young individuals aged 13 to 30 to unlock their potential through focused and customised career and college counseling. With expertise in University Readiness, CareerGym, and Master Parenting, the experts empower you to pursue your dreams and shape your future with confidence. More about us on www.fermataco.com
Dear reader,
I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.
3-2-1 Tuesdays with Ms. Niv is a newsletter you can subscribe to and enjoy your learning journey with me.
Issue #267, 19th August 2025
Can we look for evidence of growing efficiency, independence, and transferable understanding rather than just effort or time invested?
Student: “Am I getting better results with the same or less effort over time?”
If you’re working smart, you should notice that studying becomes more efficient – you retain information faster, understand concepts more deeply, and perform better on tests without necessarily spending more hours. If you’re just working hard, you might be putting in long hours but not seeing proportional improvements.
Parent: “Is my child developing independent problem-solving skills, or do they need constant help?”
A child working smart will gradually need less guidance and start finding their own effective strategies. A child just working hard might be putting in effort but still struggling with the same issues repeatedly, suggesting they need better methods rather than more time.
Teacher: “Are my students able to transfer what they’ve learned to new situations?”
Students working smart don’t just memorize – they understand underlying principles and can apply knowledge flexibly. If students can only repeat what you’ve taught in the exact same context, they may be working hard at memorization but not working smart at truly understanding.
Keep reading to find more insights on working hard and/or smart.
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Two Thoughts of the Week
“Stars do not pull each other down to be more visible; they shine brighter.”
― Matshona Dhliwayo
“Those who work hard, work alone.
Those who work smart, work as a team.”
― Utibe Samuel Mbom
One Video of the Week
Around the world, people who work hard are often seen as morally good — even if they produce little to no results. Social psychologist Azim Shariff analyzes the roots of this belief and suggests a shift towards a more meaningful way to think about effort, rather than admiring work for work’s sake.
Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week
The Long Run: Reading Journey Stages: Birth to 6-month Book Behaviour
Beyond verbal communication, a lot of language development goes on through gestures, facial expressions and even eye gaze. Infants pay a lot of attention to and learn from what they see, including what they see you looking at. Evidence suggests that babies start following their caregiver’s gaze between 2 and 4 months old and evidence shows that they tend to learn more with gaze cues than without them. Even though they won’t be able to read the words, include books from day one to get yourself into a routine of talking and reading to your baby. By 6 months old, they can enjoy hearing and physically exploring books. Board or vinyl books with limited text and unadorned illustrations provide the right fit visual and tactile stimulation your infant needs. Books with poems and nursery rhymes too regardless of illustrations, make it easy to use your voice in a way that will please little ears.
Start sharing books with your baby and begin discovering what they like best. Every baby is different and yes, they have preferences. It’s fun to see their reactions reaching for the pages, pushing books away even falling asleep when uninterested. From the get-go your baby is driving their own learning by following their interests and gathering information. Isn’t that incredible?
Even some books make it easier to support your child where they are now, don’t stress about picking the “perfect” first books. There are none. Even the research shows your choice of books is not as important as making the choice to read to your baby on a regular basis. So, choosing books YOU enjoy is powerful too.
Judge books by their shortness and sweetness at this age, not their literary merits. You’re likely to hold your infant’s attention on a book for only a minute or two, so you might as well make it a fun complex experience by picking a book that delivers language and visual interest fast. And here is a tip for reading to your toddler: “Quit before they get restless. You end at the crest of the wave”.
Book Behaviour:
· Looks at books
· Grasps books without using thumb
· Sees print and images on pages
· Prefers to look at higher contrast images and human faces
Happy reading!
Meenu Gera, Consulting home and school librarian reading guide.
Career assessment, guidance, and placement strategies:
Media and Communication Hub
Do you know?
5 reasons for Los Angeles (Hollywood) and New York City being regarded as the media and communication capital of the world:
Other Significant media centers:
Top universities for an undergraduate major in Media and Communication Studies:
Top Media and Communication colleges in India
Fermata Career Solutions inspires young individuals aged 13 to 30 to unlock their potential through focused and customised career and college counseling. With expertise in University Readiness, CareerGym, and Master Parenting, the experts empower you to pursue your dreams and shape your future with confidence. More about us on www.fermataco.com
Dear reader,
I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.
3-2-1 Tuesdays with Ms. Niv is a newsletter you can subscribe to and enjoy your learning journey with me.
Issue #266, 12th August 2025
Anticipating a difficult conversation?
The most common pitfalls include teachers getting caught up in power dynamics. Parents often react emotionally. Students approach conversations reactively rather than strategically. Here is a question for you to ask yourself that is likely to help you engage more meaningfully.
For Teachers: “Am I approaching this conversation with the goal of understanding and solving the problem together, or am I primarily focused on being right or asserting my authority?” This helps teachers check whether they’re in a collaborative mindset that will lead to productive outcomes.
For Parents: “Can I stay calm and curious if my child says something that surprises, disappoints, or upsets me?” This question helps parents assess their emotional readiness to truly listen rather than react defensively or with immediate judgment.
For Students: “Do I know specifically what I want to achieve from this conversation, and can I explain my perspective without blaming others?” This helps students focus on constructive communication rather than just venting frustration, making it more likely the conversation will lead to positive change.
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Two Thoughts of the Week
“The single most important thing [you can do] is to shift [your] internal stance from “I understand” to “Help me understand.” Everything else follows from that. . . .
Remind yourself that if you think you already understand how someone feels or what they are trying to say, it is a delusion. Remember a time when you were sure you were right and then discovered one little fact that changed everything. There is always more to learn.”
― Douglas Stone, Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most
The stronger person is not the one making the most noise but the one who can quietly direct the conversation toward defining and solving problems. — Aaron T. Beck
One Video of the Week
What stops you from speaking up when it matters most? Healthcare leader Sarah Crawford-Bohl offers a practical, compassionate framework to have difficult conversations with clarity and heart — and shows how it can lead to stronger teams and real impact.
Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week
How to Nurture Reading : Their Age and Stage
In today’s article let’s explore the road to reading from a child’s perspective, from infancy through early elementary school. The best instructors are always attuned to what the student sees and understands, so that they can patiently guide them toward greater skill and knowledge.
We all know that babies cannot read. It’s not even something parents or guardians should aspire to, let alone try to teach, despite the bogus claims of some products and the wishful thinking of the parents who buy them. The path to reading unfolds over the course of years, not months and trying to shortcut the process can misdirect you from providing the critical early support and guidance that are shown to predict later reading achievement and school success.
Reading is making sense of print at a glance. It’s accessing the sound of words from letters and grasping words meaning to – the people, places, things and concepts they are meant to represent. There’s no evidence that babies can do that. At ALL. The parent’s job in the beginning is not to teach reading but to nurture its long-term development through active attention, book sharing and caring conversation. Think of these as your own ABCs. Do them thoughtfully and consistently from the start, you will create a rich early-language environment in which your child’s reading can bloom. No flash cards, computer screens or baby curriculum required. Just your thoughtful and meaningful conversations!
Happy reading!
Meenu Gera, Consulting home and school librarian reading guide.
Career assessment, guidance, and placement strategies:
ENGINEERING HUB
Do you know?
5 Reasons for Germany being referred to as the Engineering capital of the world:
Other strong engineering nations are the USA, Japan, China, and South Korea.
Top universities in Germany to study engineering:
Top universities globally to study engineering:
Top universities in India to study engineering:
Plaksha University, Mohali, is a new-age, pioneering institution offering BTech programs in four core areas, designed to develop engineering minds equipped with entrepreneurial skills.
Fermata Career Solutions inspires young individuals aged 13 to 30 to unlock their potential through focused and customised career and college counseling. With expertise in University Readiness, CareerGym, and Master Parenting, the experts empower you to pursue your dreams and shape your future with confidence. More about us on www.fermata.com
Dear reader,
I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.
3-2-1 Tuesdays with Ms. Niv is a newsletter you can subscribe to and enjoy your learning journey with me.
Issue #265, 5th August 2025
“How do I respond when my original plan doesn’t work?”
This single question cuts to the heart of adaptability because it reveals whether someone sees obstacles as dead ends or as signals to try a different approach. An adaptable person’s answer typically involves words like “I look for alternatives,” “I ask for help,” “I try a different method,” or “I step back and reassess.”
Someone who struggles with adaptability might answer with responses like “I get frustrated and give up,” “I keep doing the same thing harder,” or “I blame external circumstances.”
Go on ask it to yourself.
This question works well for students facing academic challenges, parents navigating parenting situations that don’t go as expected, and teachers dealing with lesson plans that aren’t landing with their students.
Here are some ideas that you might want to give a thought about.
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Two Thoughts of the Week
“It is not the strongest or the most intelligent who will survive but those who can best manage change.”
― Leon C. Megginson
“If you’re not stubborn, you’ll give up on experiments too soon. And if you’re not flexible, you’ll pound your head against the wall and you won’t see a different solution to a problem you’re trying to solve.”
― Jeff Bezos
One Video of the Week
When venture investor Natalie Fratto is determining which start-up founder to support, she doesn’t just look for intelligence or charisma; she looks for adaptability. In this insightful talk, Fratto shares three ways to measure your “adaptability quotient” — and shows why your ability to respond to change really matters.
Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week
Literacy Lever: Budgeting
As we continue talking about the levers of reading this week it’s important to do budgeting for your child’s literacy journey. Money talks. Or, in this case, money can pay people to talk with, assess, read to, teach and support your child. We should not over burden our children with so many activities. And sometimes it’s important to say no, plainly no so we understand it’s among our options. We do see when children enter elementary schools, and it is shocking to see how parents pay tutors just to have repeat reading lessons over the summer. Joyous reading with your child’s willingness to read should be a way to do it but not forcing them to do so. It is important to invest in an educator who can be a guide, a mentor and a guru to elevate a child’s literacy interests. I think we should focus on free and inexpensive ways to nurture reading; I’m a huge fan of the free books and programming that libraries provide.
Literacy spending may deserve a place among the priorities, but it has to be done wisely. Financial investment in learning evaluations, educational experiences, private schools, and high-quality childcare are all major factors driving better literacy outcomes for many of us. And don’t discount smaller everyday purchases like books, field trips and after-school activities. They also contribute to the richness of a kid’s vocabulary, background knowledge and enthusiasm for learning.
Happy reading!
Meenu Gera, Consulting home and school librarian reading guide.
Showcase: Thrive Beyond School – A unique STEAM education project for very young learners.

Children explored honey badger adaptations through the Zoom-In Thinking Routine and matched animal traits to everyday materials. They made thoughtful comparisons—for example, raincoat fabric was linked to the honey badger’s tough skin, and scissors were linked to its sharp claws. During a treasure hunt, they searched for classroom items (like a fork, bottle, and honey) that represented different honey badger traits and shared their reasoning.
In group discussions, children reflected that adaptations help animals survive by keeping them safe and helping them find food. Some said they would love to have night vision or tough skin like a honey badger.
The following day, children recalled key traits such as sharp claws, a strong sense of smell, and bravery. They created honey badger crafts using textured materials. Samyuktha spoke about bees, and Havishka built a forest model. They labeled body parts and used tools to test materials for strength, stretchiness, and toughness. The session wrapped up with a quiz and thinking questions where they confidently shared their ideas.
Samyuktha & Havishka – 7 years 3 months
Neev, Mayra & Tashi – 6 years 11 months
Tara – 5 years 11 months
Career assessment, guidance, and placement strategies:
Business and Finance Capital of the World
Do you know?
6 reasons for the US, especially New York, being referred to as the Business and Finance capital of the world:
Cities like London, Hong Kong, and Singapore play critical regional roles. New York City retains the top spot globally due to its scale, influence, and financial depth.
Top 10 US universities for a major in Business and Finance:
Top universities in the UK for a major in Business and Finance:
Top universities in Canada for a major in Business and Finance:
Top universities in Asia for a major in Business & Finance:
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I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.
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Issue #264, 29th July 2025
“Help me understand what happened” or “What were you thinking in that moment?” This approach keeps communication channels open and helps teens feel heard, making them more receptive to guidance and less likely to shut down or become defensive. Focus on connection before correction. When your teenager makes a mistake or you need to address a behavior, lead with understanding rather than immediate consequences.
Give teenagers meaningful choices whenever possible, even in small ways. Whether it’s choosing between two essay topics, selecting their seat for a group project, or deciding how to demonstrate their understanding of a concept, having agency helps teens feel respected and invested in their learning. This sense of autonomy often translates into better engagement and fewer power struggles in the classroom.
Yes, teenage is difficult for children, parents and teachers. Try working as a team together and collaborate, instead of compete.
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Two Thoughts of the Week
“The youth need to be enabled to become job generators from job seekers.” A. P. J. Abdul Kalam
“Being a teen can be tough. Just try to surround yourself with really good friends that really have your back, and also be a really good friend to those who really care about you. If you’re not sure about certain things, talk to your friends that you trust and your family.”Victoria Justice
One Video of the Week
School counselor and child and mental health advocate Ruth Oelrich theorizes that just as a child develops from a young child to an adolescent, the way the parent communicates with the child must change over time. Creating a parental mindset shift from one of guiding the child to collaborating with the teen increases the ability to connect with the adolescent and guide them as they transition into young adults. Ms. Oelrich shares ideas and strategies for parents to better understand what it is an adolescent needs and how to unlock the lines of communication to better foster understanding and connection with your teen. Ruth Oelrich, a native of Davenport, IA, has spent the last 20 years working in the field of education as both an educator and school counselor. She received her MSE degree from the University of Wisconsin – Platteville in 2002. She has worked with youth in inner-city and rural communities, in public, private, and charter school systems. She specializes in Attachment Theory, Suicide Prevention, Adverse Childhood Experiences, and Adolescent Mental Health. She has volunteered her time as a Crisis Response Counselor for both the YWCA Domestic Violence Program and the American Red Cross. She believes in leading a life of simplicity, calmness, and passion and strives to instill the belief in her students.
Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week
Literacy Lever: Connecting
Roads to reading are personal. As a parent/educator in the thick of leveraging resources for your child’s benefit, you will often cross paths with others who may alter your course. They may share an idea, information which might spark your child’s interest or skills in unexpected ways or step up to support you when your time, energy or resources flag.
Teachers: Educators will facilitate vital literacy skills as always, but they can be just as valuable in identifying issues that require additional support and directing you to other professionals who can better meet your child’s needs. So, try to connect with teachers and go side by side with them.
Librarians: A good children’s librarian can help you find your next favorite read, but that’s not all librarians are becoming a vital part for families who need support in cultivating key early literacy skills through talking, reading, writing, singing and playing. They are responding by showing parents how to make the most of story time through asking questions and engaging kids in dialogue and play around stories. Always recognize libraries and librarians themselves as resources beyond the books on their shelves, and you may access a range of learning experiences for your child and activity ideas for yourself.
Happy Reading!
Meenu Gera, Consulting home and school librarian reading guide.
Career assessment, guidance, and placement strategies:
Do you know the Aviation Capital of the World?
5 reasons for Montreal, Canada, being referred to as the Aviation Capital of the world:
Top 4 Aviation Colleges in Canada
Top 8 Aviation Colleges
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Showcase: Thrive Beyond School – A unique STEAM education project for very young learners.

Neev & Mayra 6 year 11 months old children built and tested two types of model fish a round balloon fish and a long straw fish to investigate how different shapes respond to water pressure. The children discovered that the round fish got squished more easily, while the long fish stayed strong and flexible, just like the real oarfish that lives deep in the ocean. They recorded their observations using recording sheet and reflected on which shape would survive better under high pressure. They were able to share about why deep-sea fish are long and skinny, what happens when these fish are brought to the surface, and how submarines deal with pressure. To wrap up, everyone created their own colorful ribbon fish and took part in a fun quiz to share what they had learned. This hands-on activity helped them to understand how body shape and design help sea creatures adapt to extreme underwater environments
Dear reader,
I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.
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Issue #262, 15th July 2025
“What would I do differently if I knew that no one else was coming to fix this situation?”
Accountability? Responsibility? Excuse/Blame?
Parents often expect the school to handle learning difficulties, hope teachers will motivate their child, or wait for their child to “mature out of” problems. This question challenges them: What if the teacher can’t fix my child’s study habits? What if the school won’t change its approach? What if my child doesn’t suddenly become responsible? It moves them from “someone else should handle this” to “what’s my role in creating change?”
Teachers frequently feel frustrated waiting for administrators to provide better resources, parents to be more involved, or the system to change. This question makes them confront: What if the principal never gives me more supplies? What if parents don’t respond to my emails? What if class sizes stay large? It shifts focus from “if only I had more support” to “what can I control right now in my classroom?”
Students often think “If only my teacher explained better” or “If my parents helped more with homework” or “The school system should change.” This question forces them to ask: What if I’m the only one who can improve my grades? What if no one else is going to make me study or pay attention in class? It pushes them from “someone should help me” to “I need to figure this out myself.”
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Two Thoughts of the Week
“A hero is someone who understands the responsibility that comes with his freedom.” -Bob Dylan
“Being responsible is an enormous privilege… It’s what marks anyone a fully grown human.” -Barack Obama
One Video of the Week
Candy draws on her experiences of living with Type 1 Diabetes to illustrate the thought process of chronic illness sufferers. She explains the cycle of self-blame; blaming ourselves for outcomes out of our control, highlighting how biological factors are also at play. Candy Gan is a 3rd year Politics and Philosophy student at the LSE, and winner of the TEDxLSE Student Competition this year. She has lived with chronic illness her entire life, but never publicly discussed it until now. Her passion lies in healthcare policies and reform, specifically how society affects individual health. At TEDxLSE, she will be talking about accountability and responsibility, inspired by her personal experiences with chronic illness.
Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week
Book Reading:
As we have been talking about different levers for nurturing a child’s development either at home or at school, and of course book reading is pivotal for boosting brain capacity, stimulating language development, spurring vocabulary growth, increasing knowledge about the world, driving kid’s motivation to read on their own and more. Children have so much to learn in the first years of life, and book reading is one powerful strategy to support development as their needs change. Newborns developing their vision may prefer to look at high contrast images like those in black and white board books. Meanwhile 6-12 months olds get their eyes, hands, feet and mouths in on the action by engaging with different page features like textures and flaps. Toddlers are busy building their vocabularies and love simple books full of familiar items, plus a healthy dose of rhythm, Rhyme and repetition.
The benefits of reading aloud shift with the child’s age, needs, interests and the nature of the texts. Over time, family reading introduces more complex and novel words than typical everyday speech facilitates focus on the learning about print and spelling and delivers fodder for greater comprehension, to name a few benefits. Reading together creates rich conversations. Every parent/teacher should be able to select or have a guide to recommend engaging books to maximize learning.
Books are meat and medicine
And flame and flight and flower,
Steel, stitch, and cloud and clout,
And drumbeats in the air.
~ Gwendolyn Brooks.
Meenu Gera
Consulting home and school librarian reading guide
Career assessment, guidance, and placement strategies:
Careers in Information Technology
Professionals in this field use computers and technology to create, manage, and support complex systems that power our digital world. They work with both hardware and software, develop and maintain networks, and ensure smooth communication through telecommunications systems.
International Job Roles & Average Salary per annum
| Data Warehousing Specialist$120k | Computer Network Architect$120k | Database Architects $120k |
| Telecommunication Engineering Specialist $120k | Information Security Analyst$113k | Business Intelligence Analysts $108k |
| Computer Systems Analyst$100k | Health Informatics Specialist $102k | Information Technology Project Manager $98k |
| Geographic Information Systems Technologist $98k | Computer Systems Engineers $98k | Document Management Specialist $98k |
| Computer Programmer$96k | Database Administrators $96k | Web Administrators$98k |
| Software Quality Assurance Analyst & Testers $98k | Video Game Designer $95k | Network & Computer System Administrator $91k |
| Web Developer$87k | Search Marketing Strategist $76k | Computer Network Support Specialist $70k |
This dynamic sector also includes creative roles like graphic designers, game developers, and technical writers, who combine technology with design and storytelling.
Fermata Career Solutions inspires young individuals aged 13 to 30 to unlock their potential through focused and customised career and college counseling. With expertise in University Readiness, CareerGym, and Master Parenting, the experts empower you to pursue your dreams and shape your future with confidence. More about us on www.fermataco.com
Dear reader,
I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.
3-2-1 Tuesdays with Ms. Niv is a newsletter you can subscribe to and enjoy your learning journey with me.
Issue #261, 8th July 2025
Am I approaching this with curiosity rather than certainty?
This single question cuts across all three roles because it shifts our mindset from passive consumption to active engagement. When we are curious, we naturally ask follow-up questions, look for connections, and seek to understand rather than just get through the moment.
As a parent, it means wondering “What is my child really trying to tell me?” instead of assuming you know. As a teacher, it’s asking “What are my students discovering that I hadn’t considered?” rather than just delivering information. As a student, it’s approaching material with “How does this connect to what I already know?” instead of just memorizing for the test.
Curiosity transforms any situation – whether it’s a difficult conversation, a challenging lesson, or a confusing concept – into an opportunity for genuine learning and growth. It’s the difference between going through the motions and actually extracting value from every experience. What’s your view on this? Have you been more often curious or certain recently?
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Two Thoughts of the Week
Seize the moment of excited curiosity on any subject to solve your doubts; for if you let it pass, the desire may never return, and you may remain in ignorance. William Wirt
A lot of our creative flow comes from a place of curiosity and exploration. It often feels like we’re excavating and asking questions and not just giving answers but really just exploring. Adrianne Lenker
One Video of the Week
In this deeply inspiring talk, Dr. Tanu Jain shares a powerful message about the beauty and necessity of embracing change. With raw honesty and wisdom, she walks us through the idea that life doesn’t follow a perfect timeline. Instead, our growth often comes through uncertainty, failure and the courage to start over. Whether you’re a student, professional, or someone navigating life’s transitions, this talk will remind you that it’s okay to change, pause, and reinvent yourself. Dr. Tanu Jain holds a Bachelor of Dentistry degree from Subharti College and successfully cleared the Civil Services examination in 2014. Throughout her career, she has maintained a commitment to social service initiatives and has garnered recognition for her motivational speaking engagements, particularly renowned for her mock interview sessions. Dr. Jain recently resigned from her professional position to establish the Tathastu Institute of Civil Services. Dr. Tanu Jain teaches philosophy and ethics and actively engages with various social organizations, contributing significantly to societal advancement. Her overarching goal is to mentor and cultivate students of strong character, instilling in them a dedication to family, society, and the nation, thereby fostering individuals in whom the country can take.
Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week
Reading Aloud is a multivitamin for kids and a proxy for a good start too. If you do it each night as a parent or daily in your classroom, you can build their brains and inspire a lifetime of literary delight, family bonding and accomplishment.
Of course, there’s more to the story. Reading aloud, though valuable, isn’t everything. It’s time to move beyond fairy tales and to root your own reading story in reality.
There are countless ways that a parent/teacher can make a difference early on, but these are the most powerful ways to leverage as infants and toddlers grow into preschoolers and kindergarteners.
Let’s discuss the research based top six parent levers for literacy each week:
Conversation:
Want your child’s IQ and academic performance to land off the charts? Then launch their learning language development with lots of conversation when they’re young. It’s been proven that kids who engage in more back and forth dialogue with adults when they’re 18 to 24 months old tend to have a significantly higher IQ and better language skills as adolescents than kids who lack frequent back and forth adult child conversations.
The data showed that talkative toddlers with talkative parents/teachers grew into middle schoolers with better reasoning, logic, problem solving abilities, verbal comprehension and vocabulary skills than kids who had experienced fewer “conversational turns” during the pivotal time frame.
It’s amazing to see how verbal exchange works their brain-magic to boost language skills, cognitive capacity and academic achievement down the road. Also, there are some suggested strategies to nurture a child’s linguistic development from day one by exchanging words, gestures, and expressions with them as it is not easy to do in the age of smartphones and social media. But your every effort and attention will show up in their IQ, listening comprehension, and vocabulary scores when they are teens.
Stay tuned for the continuation of this conversation until next week. Till then…
Meenu Gera
Consulting home and school librarian reading guide
Showcase: Thrive Beyond School – A unique STEAM education project for very young learners.
The children took part in a fun, hands-on learning activity about where fish live. They showed a lot of interest and creativity as they talked about what makes a good home for fish and shared their own ideas and stories. Using recycled materials, they built fish habitats, which also helped them learn about taking care of the environment. As a group, they showed a good understanding of how fish, their homes, and nature are all connected.
Havishka: 7 years 3 months old
Tashi:7 years old
Tara: 6 year old

Dear reader,
I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.
3-2-1 Tuesdays with Ms. Niv is a newsletter you can subscribe to and enjoy your learning journey with me.