3-2-1 Tuesdays with Ms Niv

Issue #278, 28th October 2025

You missed this.

You did this wrong.

You got this much out of this much as score.

Your performance could be better.

OR This is what you missed, this is what could be possible responses, this is how you can improve your score, tell me how you can improve your performance next time.

Think about your feedback as a parent/educator and what it does to your child’s/student’s agency and ownership of their learning and/or behaviour.

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Two Thoughts of the Week

“Tell me and I forget. Teach me and I remember. Involve me and I learn.” – Benjamin Franklin

“Student agency is that energy that students get when they take charge of their learning and hold themselves responsible for their accomplishments.― Kelly a FloresSupporting the Success of Adult and Online Students: Proven Practices in Higher Education

One Video of the Week

Building Student Identity and Agency Dr. Dominique Smith is the Chief of Educational Services and Teacher Relations at Health Sciences High and Middle College (HSHMC) located in San Diego, CA. Dr. Smith has helped transform HSHMC to become a restorative school with his efforts in building relationships with students and hearing student voice. His focuses on school wide mind shifts to restorative practices and school equity have taken him across the world to help schools make change.

Dr. Smith has published books with authors Douglas Fisher and Nancy Frey, “Better than Carrots and Sticks” and “Building Equity, Policies and Practices to Empower All Learners,” and “Engagement by Design”.

Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week

Oral Language:

Oral Language is one of the pillars to get strong reading skills.

Spoken words are the precursor of all precursors to reading. When learning to read, a child can’t make sense of a word in print that they haven’t heard before in life. So parents must carry on conversations from the beginning to build up their kid’s word banks. Research provides evidence that the better children’s vocabularies at kindergarten entry, the better their reading comprehension in third grade, and the better their third grade reading skills, the better their high school graduation rates. Whatever your child’s age, they’ll benefit from more conversation with you.

For optimal brain development, aim for 40 conversational turns per hour when you’re with your little one. It counts as a turn whenever you greet one of your baby’s coos, babbles, words or sentences with a verbal response (or they verbally respond to your words) within 5 seconds. It’s tough to get an exact count, of course, without feedback from a “talk pedometer” like those used by researchers. Just know that most parents speak a lot less than they should and a lot less than they think they do. The lesson here is give your child the best shot at better vocabulary by taking every conversational turn you can. 

The central truth every parent must grasp is this: Oral language skills are required for reading. Just as kids crawl before they walk, they talk before they read. And before they talk, babies listen, grunt and coo. We must facilitate and encourage it all. 

We talk to our kids for all kinds of reasons in the moment to soothe, to encourage, to entertain, to direct. And there’s power in every word we speak, including the impromptu conversations we have while giving baths, making meals, and playing at home. Delivering a kind of fortified talk that’s extra nourishing to their long term brain, language and social development.

Happy Reading!

Meenu Gera, Consulting home and school librarian, reading guide

I Think, I Wonder, I Ask

Dr Shreelakshmi Subbaswami, Academic Head, Vijaya School Hassan, Karnataka

Student Agency through a Cultural Lens

If student agency — voice, choice, and ownership is vital for meaningful learning, then understanding it through a cultural lens becomes essential.

We often notice in classrooms that reverence for authority is seen as a virtue. When a student questions an idea, it is often dismissed as over smart or irrelevant. When a learner seeks choice, it is mistaken for entitlement. Respect for teachers, elders, and systems is deeply woven into our social fabric. Yet, somewhere along the way, respect has blurred into compliance, and curiosity began to be perceived as disobedience.

In my discussions with school leaders and researchers around the world, many have shared that bringing student agency into schools is challenging in contexts where the macro-culture rewards obedience, conformity, and discourages questioning. The challenge deepens because teachers themselves emerge from the same cultural background, carrying inherited beliefs about respect, discipline, and hierarchy into their classrooms.

Thus, the macro culture interacts constantly with the micro culture of schools. Together, they determine whether student agency is nourished or neglected.

I believe being cognizant of this interplay is the first step towards change. To move forward, we must make peace with discomfort. Reimagining student agency demands not reform alone, but courage, humility, and continuous dialogue.

Three Questions for You

How can schools align family, community, and classroom practices to create a culture where agency is shared and sustained?

In what tangible ways — through physical spaces, materials, or classroom arrangements — does school reflect or restrict student voice and participation?

In what intangible ways — through language, traditions, expectations, or teacher–student interactions — does your culture nurture or silence agency?

Showcase: Thrive Beyond School – A unique STEAM education project for very young learners.

Pooja Khatter, facilitator, Thrive

The children learned that a tackle box helps keep fishing tools safe and organized. Working in pairs or on their own, they decorated their own tackle boxes using recycled materials. They used cartons, paints, color sheets, stickers, and strips to create compartments for items like bait, lures, bobbers, and hooks.

This hands-on project encouraged planning, sorting, labeling, and spatial thinking, helping children think like real engineers while having fun organizing their gear. Samyuktha & Havishka : 7 years 2 months old Tashi :7 years old. Tara : 6 years 11 months old

Dear reader,
I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.

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3-2-1 Tuesdays with Ms Niv

Issue #276, 21st October 2025

This holiday season, go ahead and make generosity infectious. In schools, homes and streets. Share acts of kindness you received and show to your peers, children and family how to be generous. For that is one thing common in all religions, cultures and festival. Generosity is being human.

Try being generous to your house staff, your school staff, your peers, your family members. Can you think of ways to be generous with your emotion, creativity and courage? In communication and in deeds?

Happy Diwali!

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Two Thoughts of the Week

“Real generosity toward the future lies in giving all to the present.” Albert Camus

“No one has yet realized the wealth of sympathy, the kindness and generosity hidden in the soul of a child. The effort of every true education should be to unlock that treasure.” Emma Goldman

One Video of the Week

What would happen to humanity if generosity went viral? Sharing transformative stories from around the world, head of TED Chris Anderson outlines why the time has come for the internet to realize its power to supercharge small acts of kindness, changing lives at a scale never experienced before. Learn how to cultivate a generous mindset — with or without giving money — and get inspired with tools to amplify your impact. “Be brave. Give what you can, and then be absolutely amazed at what happens next,” Anderson says.

Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week

Humans have been reading at least since the late fourth millennium BCE, when pictographic script was first etched into clay tablets with the original stylus, a writing tool sharp enough to leave an impression. An explicit reading instruction in English — directly teaching the links between letters and sounds — has been going on since the sixteenth century. But it’s just been in the last several decades that we’ve had the benefit of rigorous experiments, massive data sets, and parent’s critical role in sustaining them. Perhaps this new knowledge can push us from literacy for the elite to literacy for all. 

Early reading subject areas should be known to all of us to teach kids with love and lightness in daily life. It includes oral language, speech-sound awareness, and letter knowledge skills that research shows are critically important for later reading skills. Plus we’ll cover the simple work of familiarizing kids with books and how print works, as well as the more advanced work of matching letters to sounds.

These abilities more likely tend to show up in preschool and kindergarten screenings, they apply to a much wider age span and that could be from birth to 116, given a remarkable story of a woman named Mary Walker born in 1848.

Walker’s dream of literacy, beautifully told in Rita Lorraine Hubbard’s picture book The Oldest Student: How Mary Walker Learned to Read, was deferred through slavery and sharecropping, through the lives of two husbands and three sons, and the administrations of twenty six presidents of the United States. She learned at last at 116 years old, and read until her death at age 121 on December 1, 1969.

She studied the alphabet until her eyes watered. Hubbard wrote “She memorized the sounds each letter made and practiced writing her name so many times that her fingers cramped.. She studied and studied until books and pages and letters and words swirled in her head while she slept. One fine day Mary’s hard work paid off. She could read!

Literacy is still deferred for too long for too many, for lack of a strong foundation. There are teachers in higher grades who struggle to teach various strategies to teachers to help their teenage students who can’t read to make sense in science, math and social studies. Question arises who will be there to help these students when they struggle after they graduate or drop out.

Would-be readers of any age must master the basics. There are areas of study that just cannot be skipped. There are many strategies learners of any age can visit, revisit and master to become more successful readers, plus ways parents can build and reinforce each.

One should always practice reading until it has been mastered to become a proficient reader.
Happy Reading!

Meenu Gera, Consulting home and school librarian, reading guide

I Think, I Wonder, I Ask

Dr Shreelakshmi Subbaswami, Alumni and Academic Director, Vijaya School Hassan, Karnataka

The Invisible Stakeholder

As a researcher and an educator, my instinct has always been to question the systems, programs, processes, and norms that we often take for granted in education. One such question that recently struck me deeply was- Whom are we really building schools and colleges for?

We assume the answer is obvious — for students. However, when we look closely, evidence of student agency is remarkably scarce. The irony is that students, the very reason our institutions exist, have the least say in decisions that shape their lives. Adults decide the curriculum, teaching methods, assessment practices, infrastructure, and even how their day looks- much of it inherited and rarely questioned.

Even the much-criticized industrial model of education had one redeeming feature: it understood the consumer! Industries invest heavily in consumer research, constantly redesigning products to suit user needs. Education, however, often skips that step entirely! We design for students, not with them…

Developmental psychology tells us that when learners have voice and choice, they not only engage more deeply but also take ownership of their growth. In contrast, when systems overregulate, learning becomes compliance rather than curiosity. Student agency is not just an appealing concept; it is a vital condition for meaningful learning and growth.

As educators, we must confront an uncomfortable truth: every time we design learning without listening to learners, we risk building institutions that look successful on paper but leave students feeling unseen, unheard, and disempowered within.

Showcase: Thrive Beyond School – A unique STEAM education project for very young learners.

Pooja Khatter, facilitator, Thrive

During the activity, students understood that clouds are made up of tiny water droplets formed when warm water vapor cools down. They learned that condensation happens when warm air meets a cold surface, changing vapor into liquid droplets. Students also understood that small particles like dust help water vapor come together to form clouds. By relating the experiment to the water cycle, they realized the roles of evaporation, condensation, and precipitation in nature. They used scientific words such as water vapor, condensation, and evaporation correctly while recording their observations and drawing what they saw. Through this experiment, students gained a clear understanding that the sun’s heat causes water to evaporate, and when the air cools, clouds are formed. Neev,Mayra & Tashi 7 years 1 month old Samyuktha & Havishka 7 years 6 months old

Career assessment, guidance, and placement strategies:

Navigating the College Application Journey: 5 Ways Parents Can Empower Their Grade 12 Child

Grade 12 is a whirlwind of emotions, academic pressure, and big decisions, especially regarding college applications. You naturally want to help as a parent, but finding the right balance between support and overstepping can be tricky. This post offers five key tips on empowering your child to navigate this exciting yet sometimes stressful process with confidence and ownership. 

  1. Foster Ownership: It’s Their College List 

It’s easy to get caught up in our own aspirations for our children but remember: your child is the one who will be attending college, not you. Encourage them to take the lead in researching institutions and developing their college list. 

  1. Guide Towards a Realistic & Balanced List

While fostering ownership is crucial, providing guidance on creating a realistic list is equally important. A well-rounded college list typically includes a mix of ‘reach,’ ‘target,’ and ‘safety’ colleges.

  1. Brainstorm Course and Major Choices Together

Encourage your child to think about their passions, strengths, and what subjects genuinely excite them. The goal here is to help them identify areas of study that spark their curiosity. 

  1. Navigating the ‘Course vs. College Name’ Conundrum

For some students, the specific course or program they want to study is paramount, while for others, the prestige or reputation of the college holds more weight. This can be a point of discussion and gentle guidance. 

  1. Be Present: The Power of Silent, Available, and Mindful Support

The college application process is emotionally charged. Your child will experience moments of excitement, frustration, anxiety, and perhaps even rejection. Your emotional support is invaluable. 

The career counselors at Fermat specialize in Profile Building and College Essays.
Fermata Career Solutions inspires young individuals aged 13 to 30 to unlock their potential through focused and customised career and college counseling. With expertise in University Readiness, CareerGym, and Master Parenting, the experts empower you to pursue your dreams and shape your future with confidence. More about us on http://www.fermata.com

Dear reader,
I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.

3-2-1 Tuesdays with Ms. Niv is a newsletter you can subscribe to and enjoy your learning journey with me.

3-2-1 Tuesdays with Ms Niv

Issue #275, 14th October 2025

Schools and current education system can be quite the pressure cooker for teacher and students. Thus parents and community as well. The many holidays and celebrations are ongoing and ensuing and the children are not quite looking forward to going back to school, books and test. What can be done to make learning journeys more joyful? Something that our children have to do for all their lives given the changing scenarios they are facing year on year? Go ahead and listen to Ms. Freitag’s talk included in this issue of newsletter.

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Two Thoughts of the Week

“Every child can learn. Just not on the same day or in the same way.”

– George Evans

“In learning you will teach, and in teaching you will learn.”

– Phil Collins

One Video of the Week

The struggle is real – teaching and learning can be challenging from either perspective. How to use CRSSP strategies to make teaching and learning more engaging. Dedicating her adult life to inspiring her students with discovering their strengths and inspiring personal growth, not only as learners, but as people. Wholeheartedly believing learning can, and should be, both rigorous and fun. Michele started her educational career as a speech/language pathologist and 18 years teaching 3rd grade. For the past 16 years, she has been a well known and respected gifted/talented/enrichment specialist at the elementary school level, challenging students in grades K – 4. During the height of COVID, she spent one year back in the classroom, teaching 4th grade. Michele is involved with Odyssey of the Mind program. She has helped hundreds of students in grades K – 12 improve their creative problem solving skills. For several years, Michele also served as the Director for Camp Invention, a summertime STEM camp. Currently, Michele teaches watercolor painting classes, is an avid crafter, and is very active in her church community.

Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week

Principle # 2

The More Personal the Lesson, the Better

Helping your child learn to read requires making decision after decision. Which letters or words to teach? Which song to sing or story to tell? When making the calls, err on the side of making the lessons themselves personally meaningful for your child. Sometimes it’s as straightforward as teaching the child to write letters in their name first, making up songs and stories featuring their pets, choosing vocabulary words from their favorite books. Sometimes it’s as deep as practicing fluency by reading aloud texts that affirm and sustain a child’s cultural heritage or community.

To help conceptualize this, researchers have defined three levels of personal relevance, from mere association to usefulness to identification. When a reading lesson centers on a passage about the student’s sport of choice (say, soccer), that’s making a personal association.If you can make it clear how the lesson itself is useful for advancing a goal the child is after (like joining wordplay with older siblings), even better. But if you can make the activity resonate with the child’s sense of self, you’re really cooking with grease. This is what’s going on when a little one named Anna sees the letter A and says, That’s my letter! She’s owning it – and identifying with it. It matters to her and she learns it quickly.

The power of personal meaning also helps explain why parents so often find that something that worked like a charm with one child falls flat with another kid. Kid’s associations, judgements of usefulness and identities vary widely, even when they grow up under the same roof. Locking in on what makes your individual learner tick and facilitating resonant experiences just for them is golden. 

Luckily, you have a built-in feedback mechanism for determining what’s working: for your child. Even infants express preferences. A little one might reach for the same book with bold illustrations or lift up flaps over and over again. You may also find that what gives the lesson meaning is you – your demeanor, your engagement, and your responsiveness can be tremendous motivators. 

Keep reading and making personal connections to your child’s life! That matters!

Happy Reading!

Meenu Gera, Consulting home and school librarian, reading guide

I Think, I Wonder, I Ask

Dr Shreelakshmi Subbaswami, Alumni and Academic Director, Vijaya School Hassan, Karnataka

How Art Helps Us to Build Self-Awareness: An Experiment

As educators, we often speak about helping students “know themselves”- their strengths, weaknesses, values, and voices. Yet, if we pause and ask, how do students truly come to know themselves? The answers often circle back to someone else’s opinion- a teacher’s observation, a parent’s feedback,  a report card, or a peer comment. Much of a student’s self understanding is mediated through the eyes of others, while very few processes nurture the self’s (student’s) voice: What do I see in myself? How do I learn? What matters to me?

For student leaders, their self- knowledge is even more vital. Leadership begins with self-awareness- the ability to recognize one’s emotions, reactions, and influence on others. Yet, most tools available in schools are evaluative, often judgmental, and rarely reflective. I began to wonder: what if students could explore themselves through a medium that was less evaluative, less fearful, yet deeply revealing?

With my experience in pottery and mosaic work, I curated a session for our student council members to use art as a tool- a mirror for the self and a pathway to understanding the leader within. I wanted to explore how each one could uncover what lies within- their patience, emotions, adaptability, and ways of connecting with others. The focus was not on skill-building but on reflection. Between moments of shaping clay and arranging mosaic tiles, we paused to ask:

  • How do I approach something new?
  • How do I respond when things don’t go as planned?
  • How do I work when others’ styles differ from mine?

Students opened up without fear of judgement. Their strengths, challenges, and leadership qualities- patience, empathy, collaboration- surfaced naturally; as they moulded clay, they also moulded confidence, courage and compassion- essential elements of the leaders they are becoming.

As an educator, I reaffirmed something through this experiment: when we shift from judgement to understanding, learning feels safer, reflection replaces comparison, and growth becomes an inward journey rather than an outward race.

Three questions for you…

  • What tools beyond feedback and marks help students see themselves?
  • How can art-based reflection be built into teaching?
  • How can we model self-reflection as educators ourselves?


Showcase: Thrive Beyond School – A unique STEAM education project for very young learners.

Pooja Khatter, facilitator, Thrive

Our young scientists participated in an exciting hands-on activity where they designed and built their own monsoon-proof houses. Through teamwork and experimentation, the children explored how different materials reacted to water and discovered which ones were best for keeping homes dry and strong during heavy rain. This fun and engaging project helped them understand the importance of using waterproof and sturdy materials while also encouraging observation, problem-solving, and creative thinking.

Career assessment, guidance, and placement strategies:

Liberal Arts Colleges & Universities in India: How do they Benefit Students?

Liberal Arts colleges/universities are steadily growing in India, offering students a broad interdisciplinary approach to learning. 

The benefits of a liberal arts education are both wide-ranging and deeply focused:

  1. Focus on skill-building, not just the major – skills like critical thinking, communication, creativity, problem-solving, global perspective and more. The essence is that skills are equally crucial for employability as the core subject expertise.
  2. This education emphasizes studying a range of subjects in the humanities, social sciences, natural sciences, and the arts, helping students understand the world from multiple perspectives.
  3. This education benefits the students who are still undecided on their major and/or career goals.
  4. This education benefits career-oriented students to build interdisciplinary connections and apply knowledge creatively across different fields.
  5. For parents, this means their children are not limited to one career path. Liberal arts graduates can work in diverse fields like business, policy, technology, education, design, and more. 

A liberal arts education is not about producing specialists but well-rounded thinkers and responsible citizens. Top institutions focusing on this education are:

  1. Flame University
  2. Ashoka University
  3. Krea University
  4. Shiv Nadar University
  5. Ahmedabad University
  6. Azim Premji University
  7. OP Jindal Global University
  8. Symbiosis School of LIberal Arts
  9. And more

In today’s fast-changing world, success depends not just on what you know, but on how you think, adapt, and communicate. Liberal arts education prepares students for this reality by helping them connect ideas across disciplines and approach challenges with creativity and confidence. 
Fermata Career Solutions inspires young individuals aged 13 to 30 to unlock their potential through focused and customised career and college counseling. With expertise in University Readiness, CareerGym, and Master Parenting, the experts empower you to pursue your dreams and shape your future with confidence. More about us on http://www.fermata.com

Dear reader,
I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.

3-2-1 Tuesdays with Ms. Niv is a newsletter you can subscribe to and enjoy your learning journey with me.


3-2-1 Tuesdays with Ms Niv

Issue #274, 7th October 2025

What matters more — ensuring every child meets the same benchmark, or allowing each child to learn in their own way and at their own pace?

How can we balance standardised assessments with personalised learning experiences that value creativity, curiosity, and individuality?

In preparing students for the future, should education aim to produce consistent competencies or nurture unique capabilities?

What are your thoughts? How are you managing the balance of standardisation and personalisation as an educator and/or parent?

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Two Thoughts of the Week

The answer is not to standardize education, but to personalize and customize it to the needs of each child and community. There is no alternative. There never was.

Ken Robinson

Standardized personalization=universal right to meaningful learning. Personalized standardization=flexible access to mandated learning.

Andy Hargreaves

One Video of the Week

Personalization… discovering one’s drive. Personalization… evolving on a life-long journey of discovery. Personalization… challenging self to exceed internal expectations. Personalization… digging deeper, finding new capacity, overcoming self to redefine success. Personalization… vanquishing fear, conquering hesitation, and overcoming failures. Superintendent/CEO, Hilliard City Schools (2013-Present) Superintendent/CEO, Loveland City Schools (2010-2013) Superintendent, East Knox Local Schools (2005-2010) Building Principal, Tri-Village Jr/Sr High School (2000-2005) Adjunct Professor, Ohio Dominican University (2013 – Present) Conference Presenter, National School Board Association Annual Conference (2015, Nashville & 2016, Boston) Google Educators Summit – Keynote Presenter – 2012 Appointed by Ohio Governor John Kasich, Member, Ohio Digital Learning Task Force (2012) Appointed by Senate President Keith Faber, Member, Ohio Testing and Assessment Committee (2015) Appointed by Ohio Governor Robert Taft, Member, Advisory Council for Ohio Core Graduation Requirement (2007) 2013 International Society for Technology in Education (ISTE) Ohio Administrator of the Year

Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week

Yes You Can : Five Touchstones for Parents Who Dare to Teach

Reading is taught, not caught. This phrase has been in circulation for decades, but it bears repeating with each new generation of parents, and it has never been more fully supported by compelling evidence. Learning to read is a complex, unnatural, years-long odyssey, and parents should bear no illusions that their kids will pick it up merely by watching other people read or being surrounded by books. We already got a glimpse of how fascinating the twists and turns that lead to literacy are, how influential parents are in helping kids navigate them, and how early in life that power is in evidence. We would be discussing these principles any parent can remember and apply with ease during long, busy days with young children. Some of the five you may know instinctively. Others may have never crossed your mind. All deserve to be hallmarks of the way we approach raising readers. These touchstones are research-backed and parent approved. These principles will make your child a strong, fluent, and independent reader.

Principle # 1

It’s What You Say – and How You Say It

Spurring literacy development, like teaching of any kind, is about creating shared meaning between you and your little one. And that requires meeting them where they are, capturing their attention, engaging in back and forth exchanges and also providing the stimulation that helps them to their next level. 

Parent’s actions such as asking questions vs giving directives, introducing novel vocabulary and arranging words and phrases in advanced ways all affect a child’s language development. But parent responsiveness plays a major role as well, for example how reliably and enthusiastically you respond to your child’s speech and actions. Reciprocal and dynamic interactions….. provide what nothing else in the world can offer experiences that are individualized to the child’s unique personality style, that build on his or her own interests, capabilities, and initiative, that shape the child’s self awareness and that stimulate the child’s growth and development. So we must have the awareness to let a child’s age or language ability affect the content and tenor of our speech. Studies provide evidence that infants and young toddlers, for example, benefit from conversations about the here and now with us pointing and gesturing to label objects in our immediate surroundings or on the pages of books we’re reading together. So set aside ten minute a day of mindful communication, focusing on your baby, your words and the interplay between them. Over time the focused practice will create habits that spill over into other conversations, too.

Happy Reading!

Meenu Gera, Consulting home and school librarian, reading guide

I Think, I Wonder, I Ask

Standardization vs. Contextualization in Education: Finding the Balance

In my previous blog on school bells, I reflected on how even the sounds that structure our school day carry remnants of the industrial model of education. Another enduring feature of that model is the drive to standardize- content, pedagogy and assessment. Standardization promises comparability, efficiency, and accountability. Yet within a classroom, the diverse needs, interests and backgrounds of students call for contextualization.

As a researcher, I once resisted every trace of standardization. But now, as a practitioner, I find myself constantly negotiating this tension. I must respond to the systemic demands for uniformity while addressing the unique needs of students. The negotiation is less about rejecting standardization entirely and more about finding balance.

So, what can we do as educators in our own contexts? In content, we can work with mandated topics yet create multiple entry points- through local case studies, students’ lived expereinces, or contrasting perspectives. This makes learning culturally and socially relevant, In pedagogy, differentiated approaches based on learning needs and interests allow students to engage meaningfully within the curriculum. In assessment, we can go beyond standardized tests by blending formative checks, portfolios, projects, reflective journals, and peer reviews, while still aligning them with grade level standards. These steps do not discard standards; rather they keep them responsive to learners.

Such shifts take time. The first step is a conscious recognition of the forces shaping our daily classroom choices. Standardization and contextualization are not opposites to be fought over, but forces to be balanced. I believe that what happens in classrooms can, over time, redefine what entire systems value.

Three questions for you…

  • Which standardized practices in your classroom no longer serve your students’ needs or interests?
  • Within standardized content and practices, in what ways can you bring students’ contexts into learning
  • If you imagine your students ten years from now, which contextualized experiences would you want them to remember- and how might that guide your choices today?

Dr Shreelakshmi Subbaswami, Alumni and Academic Director, Vijaya School Hassan, Karnataka

Dear reader,
I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.

3-2-1 Tuesdays with Ms. Niv is a newsletter you can subscribe to and enjoy your learning journey with me



3-2-1 Tuesdays with Ms Niv

Issue #273, 30th September 2025

Can you find small ways to add great value to another person’s life? If you are an educator, parent or student, there are multiple ways that you can do so. If you are mindfully doing this, you are also adding value to not only the organisation and/or family you belong to but also to yourself. Sharing your knowledge, a little bit of feedback, connecting people, information sharing whether of a new bookstore or a tutor, a playdate, an interesting event that your colleagues or fellow parents might be interested in. All this makes you ‘givers’. Statistics show that givers win in more ways than one. Success is more about contribution than competition. You will find more insights in the Video of the Week in this issue of the newsletter.

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Two Thoughts of the Week

“Givers need set limits because takers rarely do.”
― Rachel Wolchin

“The world has takers and givers, the moment you decide to be a taker you will always be in want, scarcity and on downward spiral. Givers are always watered and never wither even in the dry season.”
― Dr. Lucas D. Shallua

One Video of the Week

In every workplace, there are three basic kinds of people: givers, takers and matchers. Organizational psychologist Adam Grant breaks down these personalities and offers simple strategies to promote a culture of generosity and keep self-serving employees from taking more than their share. Adam hosts the TED Audio Collective podcast WorkLife with Adam Grant–a show that takes you inside the minds of some of the world’s most unusual professionals to discover the keys to a better work life. Listen to WorkLife with Adam Grant wherever you get your podcasts.

Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week

Emergent and Beginning Reading from 5 to 7 years:

At 5 and 6 years old, kids typically speak clearly, tell stories with complete sentences, use the future tense, and say their own full name and address. They can count past 10, draw a person with several body parts and copy triangles and other shapes, and they know a good deal about everyday life, from food to money.

But real differences in their literacy skills become obvious (to them and us) at this point, too. Elementary school classrooms often put reading and writing on display in ways that can’t help but highlight student variations. Everything from the reading group they’re placed in to the work displayed on the bulletin board exposes the differences. it can be agonizing for parents to hear about the social drama playing out in the name of education – tales of one child being put “on the computer” because they can’t read, another checking out the same baby book from the classroom library everyday because that’s what’s on “their level,” and yet another signing their name with a scribble that’s different every time.

Yet all of these kids are on their own unique paths to reading. We just need to clearly identify what they’re working with, so that we may deliver the right experiences, instructions and additional tools. A few quick definitions, based on what science reveals about how beginners learn to read words in and out of context, will help. 

  • Pre Readers rely mainly on visuals and context clues to make sense of words, They may recognize a word with the context of a logo but they are unable to read.
  • Beginning or emergent readers are beginning to apply what they know about letters and sounds to read and write.
  • Alphabetic readers have full command of letter-sound correspondences, can decode unfamiliar words and can spell from memory.
  • Fluent readers, or consolidated alphabetic readers have forged a solid knowledge of many words, spellings, pronunciations and meanings through deep experience of hearing, saying, spelling and understanding them.

Book Behaviour, Print Awareness and Writing

  • Writes full name
  • Recognizes upper and lowercase letters
  • Connects letters to their sounds
  • Tracks print from left to right
  • Sounds out words
  • Spells phonetically
  • Reads and writes simple sentences
  • Begins sentences with capital letters
  • Attempting punctuation
  • Correctly spells frequently used words

Happy Reading!

  • Meenu Gera, Consulting home and school librarian, reading guide

Career assessment, guidance, and placement strategies:

ENGINEERING HUB

Do you know?

5 Reasons for Germany being referred to as the Engineering capital of the world:

  1. World-class engineering expertise
  2. Home to top engineering global brands like BMW, Audi, Mercedes-Benz, Volkswagen, Porsche, Siemens, Bosch, and more
  3. Excellence in education and R&D: Germany’s dual education system is structured to create a highly skilled engineering workforce
  4. ‘Made in Germany’ – a hallmark of technical reliability, precision, and quality worldwide
  5. Leadership in Industrial Technology

Other strong engineering nations are the USA, Japan, China, and South Korea. 

Top universities in Germany to study engineering:

  1. Technical University of Munich, Germany
  2. RWTH Aachen, Germany
  3. Karlsruhe Institute of Technology, Germany
  4. Technical University of Berlin, Germany
  5. TU Dresden, Germany

Top universities globally to study engineering:

  1. Harvard University, USA
  2. Massachusetts Institute of Technology, USA
  3. Stanford University, USA
  4. University of California, Berkeley, USA
  5. California Institute of Technology, USA
  6. Princeton University, USA
  7. University of Oxford, UK
  8. University of Cambridge, UK
  9. University of Waterloo, Canada
  10. University of Toronto, Canada
  11. National University of Singapore

Top universities in India to study engineering:

  1. IITs
  2. NIT Trichy
  3. VIT Vellore
  4. IISc Bangalore (top research-driven STEM university)
  5. BITS Pilani
  6. Delhi Technological University
  7. Thapar Institute of Engineering & Technology
  8. Jamia Millia Islamia

Plaksha University, Mohali, is a new-age, pioneering institution offering BTech programs in four core areas, designed to develop engineering minds equipped with entrepreneurial skills. 

Fermata Career Solutions inspires young individuals aged 13 to 30 to unlock their potential through focused and customised career and college counseling. With expertise in University Readiness, CareerGym, and Master Parenting, the experts empower you to pursue your dreams and shape your future with confidence. More about us on http://www.fermata.com

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Dr Shreelakshmi Subbaswami, Alumni and Academic Director, Vijaya School Hassan, Karnataka

School Bells: Does it Ring a Bell with the Old Models of Education?

The ringing of a school bell is such a familiar sound that we often forget to question it. Historically, bells in schools mirrored the rhythms of factories- marking shifts, signaling transitions, and reinforcing punctuality as a social virtue. Their purpose was less about learning and more about order and efficiency. Even today, this practice shapes how we divide learning time in schools from one subject to another.

But must the bell continue to dictate the pace of learning? There are some realistic alternatives. Instead of abrupt ringing every 40 minutes, schools can adopt softer tones or music that signals transitions with less disruption. Some schools have experimented with visual cues on digital boards, where countdowns help both teachers and students prepare to shift. Longer learning blocks- say 60-80 minutes can reduce the number of transitions and allow deeper engagement. Some schools use chimes and hand signals to indicate transitions. Others rely on teacher-led time cues, where the teacher signals the end of a session organically. Even staggering dismissal between floors or grades can ease the stress of mass movement caused by a single bell.

These are not radical changes, but they shift the emphasis from rigid control to flexible choices. They remind us that time in schools can be managed with flexibility rather than rigidity. Perhaps the deeper hope is this: when we loosen the grip of the bell, we make space for rhythms of both learning and learners.

Three questions for you…

  • Which parts of the school day feel most dominated by the bell- and how might they be softened?
  • How could longer or staggered blocks create calmer transitions in your school?
  • If students could imagine alternatives to the bell, what rhythms of learning might they choose?

As we reconsider who controls time in schools, I also invite you to question how much of what we teach, how we teach, and how we assess is still bound by the idea of standardization of education in my next discussion…

Dear reader,
I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.

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Issue #272, 23rd September 2025

How does consistency enlarge our abilities? Can small actions lead to massive change? How can it play out in your life as a student, educator, or parent? What is the small consistent action can you pick up? power of momentum is great because things in motion stay in motion right? Small, consistent, actions – potent trifecta!

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“Consistency beats intensity. Consistency beats volume. Consistency beats passion. Consistency dictates results. Consistency is what defines character.” — Rich Roll

“Two words should be committed to memory and obeyed by alternately exerting and restraining ourselves, words that will ensure we lead a mainly blameless and untroubled life: persist and resist.” — Epictetus

One Video of the Week

What if everything you have ever learnt about change and social impact was totally wrong? In grade 12 Sam Demma had a high school teacher who convinced him that change and impact was not the result of massive shifts, but instead the outcome of committing to Small Consistent Actions. Sam is a 19-year-old professional speaker, avid reader and co-founder of the social enterprise, PickWaste. Due to his work with PickWaste, he was named one of the top 25 under 25 environmentalists all throughout Canada. He strives to spread a simple but powerful message, that small consistent actions will lead to massive changes. When Sam’s not picking up trash, you can find him reading, at the gym, or spending time with his family.

Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week

Pre-Reading from ages 4 to 5 Years:

Little ones at this point can introduce themselves with first name and last, sing a song or nursery rhyme by heart and tell a story of their own. Four year olds are well aware of cause and effect and have developed a good bit of sophistication around language and books. They begin comparing and contrasting favorite characters in different books. They come to see books as sources for answers to questions about the world. 

It’s time to build some print awareness by talking to your child about how books work, how print conveys meaning, and what words are. These are vital lessons, because before a child can read print, they must notice it. Sprinkle in a few comments (max) before or during reading that direct your child’s attention to how books are organized and how print mirrors spoken language. Use your fingers to point to letters and words, which helps them connect the print on the page with the peech they hear and understand.

Sample Phrases:

1. These are the words. I need to read them from this side to this side (Trace finger from right along the text)

2. Where should we start reading? Here? (Point to the first word on the page.) Or here? (Point to the last word on the page).

3. I know this is the top of the page. Show me where the bottom of the page is.

Book Behavior, Print Awareness, Writing and Letter Recognition

  • Write their own name
  • Identifies their own name in print
  • Names some upper and lowercase letter
  • Understands cause and effect 
  • Follows story sequences 
  • Represents themself in drawings
  • Form s letters

Happy Reading!

  • Meenu Gera, Consulting home and school librarian, reading guide

Career assessment, guidance, and placement strategies:

Study in Japan

Do you know?

Japan is globally recognised for technological innovation across several sectors:

1. Robotics & Automation: Especially in industrial automation robots companies like Fanuc, Yaskawa, Kawasaki, and ABB Japan dominate the market. Japan also excels in humanoid and service robots, with notable examples as  Honda’s ASIMO and SoftBank’s Pepper.

2. Automotive Industry: Japan is a global leader in automotive engineering and production.  Toyota is the largest car manufacturer, while Honda, Nissan, Subaru, and Mazda are renowned for their reliability, innovation, and fuel efficiency.

3.  High-Speed Rail (Shinkansen): Japan set global standards with the Shinkansen (bullet trains), famous for high-speed, punctuality, and safety. Japan also advises and collaborates on high-speed rail projects worldwide.

5. Precision Engineering & Materials Science: Japan excels in producing high-precision components for aerospace, medical devices, and semiconductors, along with advanced materials and specialty chemicals.

Top universities in Japan offering undergraduate and postgraduate programs in the areas of Robotics & Automation, Automotive Manufacturing, Consumer Electronics & Gaming, High-Speed Transportation, and Precision Manufacturing include:

  1. University of Tokyo
  2. Tokyo Institute of Technology
  3. Osaka University
  4. Tohoku University
  5. Nagoya University
  6. Kyoto University
  7. Kyushu University
  8. Ritsumeikan University

Fermata Career Solutions inspires young individuals aged 13 to 30 to unlock their potential through focused and customised career and college counseling. With expertise in University Readiness, CareerGym, and Master Parenting, the experts empower you to pursue your dreams and shape your future with confidence. More about us on http://www.fermata.com

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Reminiscence of the Industrial Classroom: Are We Still Teaching in Rows and Lines? 

When I walk into classrooms, even today, I wonder: what remnants of the industrial and behavioristic era are we still holding on to? Rows of benches facing the blackboard, instruction flowing one way, students measured by compliance rather than curiosity- it feels like shadows of the old systems that refuse to lift. 

One visible change that has shaken this model is something as simple as seating arrangements. The shift may look like a mere change of furniture. But is it really? For some teachers, it was liberating- children engaging with one another, learning flowing in circles rather than lines. For others, it was unsettling- the noise, the movement, the unpredictability of collaboration felt threatening. This was not just a physical change, but a reflection of shifting belief systems. 

Still, many hesitate- fear of losing control, anxiety about finishing the syllabus, concerns over assessment, and even simple doubts like “Will this really work with my students?”. But when classrooms opened to collaboration, I have seen teachers surprised by the learning gains- students becoming more engaged, confident and independent. Changes take courage. Rows feel safe; clusters feel risky. The joy of watching children truly learn makes the leap worthwhile. 

And the leap is not just about moving desks around- it is about shifting mindsets: that pedagogy must shift from control to co-construction. Lesson plans centered on activity, movement and collaboration gradually reshape both teachers and classrooms. 

Three questions for you: 

• What practices from your own schooling are you still repeating, without questioning, in your teaching today? 

• What would it take to let go of control and give student ownership of learning? 

• If not now, then when? And what might you and your students lose by waiting?

Dr Shreelakshmi Subbaswami, Alumni and Academic Director, Vijaya School Hassan, Karnataka


Showcase: Thrive Beyond School – A unique STEAM education project for very young learners.

Pooja Khatter, facilitator, Thrive

In this activity, children were excited to create “animal superpower cards.” They discovered that each animal has special abilities that help it survive, such as the silver ant’s speed in the desert, the oar fish’s ability to live deep in the ocean, the honey badger’s bravery and strong defense, and the echidna’s spines and digging skills. Using science, they learned about animal adaptations, and with math, they rated each trait using numbers. They practiced design and problem-solving while making their cards, expressed creativity through art by drawing and decorating, and linked their ideas to games like Pokémon, showing a connection to technology. The activity helped them see how animals are like superheroes of nature while learning through science, math, art, and creativity all together. Tara: 6 year old Tashi,Neev& Mayra: 7 years old Samyuktha: 7 year 5 months old

Dear reader,
I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.

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Issue #271, 16th September 2025

In our information-rich world, students need explicit instruction in evaluating sources, identifying bias, and distinguishing between correlation and causation. This means practicing with real examples: comparing news articles on the same event from different sources, analyzing advertisements for persuasion techniques, or examining scientific studies to understand how conclusions are drawn

Rather than simply providing answers, demonstrate the thinking process by asking follow-up questions like “What makes you think that?” or “How did you reach that conclusion?” When you encounter new information, verbalize your own questioning: “I wonder if this source is reliable” or “What evidence supports this claim?” Students learn more from observing authentic intellectual curiosity than from being told to “think critically.”

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Two Thoughts of the Week

“It is not the strongest of the species that survive, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change.” Charles Darwin

“The measure of intelligence is the ability to change.” Albert Einstein

One Video of the Week

Eddy Zhong, successful technology entrepreneur, dives into the truth behind our K-12 education system. Eddy strongly believes that the education system diminishes creativity and confines children to a certain path towards success.

He contends that kids are taught to believe college is a necessary step in life and that it is mandatory to achieve one’s goals. His talk challenges the commonly held beliefs of our entire education structure. Eddy is the founder of Leangap, a summer program that helps high school students start their own companies Eddy is an aspiring technology entrepreneur and the founder of Blanc, a smart-watch company based in Cambridge, Massachusetts.

His ideas have been featured in numerous publications and he is passionate about empowering youth to think differently. Eddy is the founder of Leangap, a summer program that helps high school students start their own companies

Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week

Writing and Noticing Print from 3 to 4 years

By age 3, kids typically know the names of family members, friends, and most objects in their daily lives. They understand prepositions (on, in, under) and can string two or three sentences together. They know many words and their opposites. They push and pull toy vehicles to get them moving. They can put things like – colors, shapes, toys and objects and count real-life objects like books on a table.

Their attention to and interest in longer stories takes off and they can show off their comprehension by answering questions about what they just heard. They can follow a clear storyline from beginning to middle to end. You can now ask questions during read-aloud that prompt them to think more, make predictions about what will come next, and connect stories to their own experiences.

You’ll want to stick more closely to the text as printed on the page now, too, if you were prone to freestyling or skipping passages to keep their interest. Making print to speech connections is on their horizon now.

Talk about the lines, curves, hooks, humps, and dots that form letters. This helps kids understand that a limited number of critical features form all letters. 

Book Behaviour, Print Awareness, Writing and Letter Recognition:

·         Follow the structure of a story

·         Makes predictions about what will happen next in a tale

·         Connects text to personal experience

·         Points to print as the source of information in a story

·         Recognizes and prefers favorite book characters

·         Understands that pictures are connected in a story

·         Recognizes their own name in print, plus some familiar words

·         Names letters on everyday objects, signs and posters

·         Makes letter-like scribbles to represent words

·         Attempts to print their own name

Happy Reading!

  • Meenu Gera, Consulting home and school librarian reading guide

Career assessment, guidance, and placement strategies:

Get ready for your dream university: What New York University Looks For

New York University (NYU) was founded in 1831 to create a new kind of higher education institution that broke from the elitist traditions of early 19th-century American colleges. The founder’s Albert Gallatin, former U.S. Secretary of the Treasury under Presidents Jefferson and Madison, believed America needed a university that was practical, inclusive, and connected to the realities of urban and commercial life. Gallatin and a group of prominent New Yorkers wanted a school that reflected the city’s energy, diversity, and growing economy. Today, NYU is recognized as a global, research-driven, creative university with campuses in New York, Abu Dhabi, and Shanghai. 

What does NYU look for in students? Here’s how you can identify a strong fit:

  1. Challenging coursework
  2. Strong performance in subject areas related to the intended major
  3. Evidence of cross-disciplinary curiosity
  4. Volunteering, internships, or projects in busy city environments
  5. Published writing, coding projects, and entrepreneurial ventures
  6. Adaptability and resourcefulness in new settings
  7. Community problem-solving
  8. Internships in industry hubs
  9. Cross-cultural leadership

In a nutshell, NYU values students who make things happen – those who use resources, build connections, and create impact both inside and outside the classroom. 

Fermata Career Solutions inspires young individuals aged 13 to 30 to unlock their potential through focused and customised career and college counseling. With expertise in University Readiness, CareerGym, and Master Parenting, the experts empower you to pursue your dreams and shape your future with confidence. More about us on http://www.fermata.com

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Small Steps Towards Big Learning

When we aim to build a culture of collaboration and peer coaching in academics, our minds immediately turn to higher- order tasks- critical thinking, problem solving, and in-depth analysis. But are students truly ready to leap into these spaces without first practicing the art of collaboration in simpler, more accessible ways? Sometimes, the entry point to higher-order collaboration is not in academics at all, but in everyday school experiences.

I was reminded of this during the recent inter-grade sports matches. High school captains coached younger students, guiding them not only on techniques but also on teamwork and sportsmanship. On the surface, it was play, beneath it was practice. Students were learning to give feedback, accept corrections and adjust strategies- exactly the skills we later expect in academic peer reviews or group projects.

This foundational practice shows up in everyday school life. Picnic lunches, where children sit together and share food, become spaces for perspective- taking. Student- led events serve as rehearsals for decision-making, negotiations, and responsibility. Even simple collaborative classroom responsibilities like arranging books, organizing bulletin boards, may seem routine, yet they cultivate habits of cooperation and shared accountability.

These practices may seem ordinary, but they are powerful examples of Vygotsky’s zone of proximal development: low-stakes, scaffolded opportunities where learners stretch just beyond their comfort zones, supported by peers. Such “low- hanging” practices are not merely warm-ups- these are essential foundations for higher- order, critical tasks.

Three questions for you…

What would shift in the classrooms if we treated peer-led, low stakes practices as essential rehearsals, as seriously as we treat academic practices?

How can we make students’ collaborative learning visible and celebrate small wins so they recognize progress, not just grades?

Are we patient enough to let small, scaffolded experiences take root and grow into lasting capacities before demanding advanced cognitive work?

Dr Shreelakshmi Subbaswami, Alumni and Academic Director, Vijaya School Hassan, Karnataka

Showcase: Thrive Beyond School – A unique STEAM education project for very young learners.

The children explored how dinosaurs lived in different habitats by first observing images of deserts, jungles, and coastal areas from the Mesozoic Era. They discussed how animals needed the right climate to survive, making connections to examples like polar bears in the Arctic and camels in deserts. Each child then created their own mini dinosaur terrarium using soil, sand, rocks, plants, and toy dinosaurs to represent habitats such as hot deserts, wet jungles, and coastal areas. With the help of heat lamps and spray bottles, they investigated how temperature and humidity affected these environments, measuring and recording their findings with gauges.

Samyuktha & Havishka: 7 years 5 months old
Tashi & Mayra: 7 years old

Dinosaur DNA Extraction Simulation

The activity began with a thought-provoking question: “What makes you different from your friends?” The children shared meaningful responses—Neev said “our likes,” Mayra said “identity,” Samyuktha said “dislikes,” Tashi said “feelings,” and Havishka said “different names.” When asked, “Why do you have your hair, your smile, or your favorite taste?” Mayra thoughtfully replied, “we all are different and we all like different things.”
Before introducing the concept of DNA, the teacher asked if the children had heard of it before. Mayra explained that it is “something inside our body that helps us to do something,” while Havishka described it as “a special password in our body,” giving the example that even a strand of hair could reveal that password if tested.
During the banana DNA extraction, the children learned that DNA is like a special recipe or instruction book inside every living thing, guiding growth and traits. Through the experiment, they discovered how soap breaks open cells, salt helps the DNA clump together, and alcohol makes it visible. By mashing the banana, filtering the mixture, and carefully adding chilled rubbing alcohol, they observed white, stringy, cloudy material rising into the alcohol layer this was the banana’s DNA.

Samyuktha & Havishka: 7 years 5 months old
Tashi, Neev & Mayra: 7 years old

Pooja Khatter, facilitator, Thrive


Dear reader,
I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.

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Issue #270, 9th September 2025

Are we raising kids for ‘now’ instead of ‘yet’? the power of ‘not as yet’ v/s F (Failed) or ‘needs improvement’ is life alterning for students as it calls for a shift of mindset. Have you experienced it as a teacher or parent? have you tried it in your conversations with the child or in in your class report card? Let us praise wisely, reward for efforts, strategy and progress, get smarter over time tackling challenges beyound their comfort zones. For 21st century challenges are anything but known or easy. That’s the world our children and students going to enter and live in. Effort and difficulty must make us feel smarter, as that is when we make new neurons and brain connections. Struggle should not make us or our children feel dumb. Let us together create spaces filled with ‘yet’.

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“You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose.” – Dr. Seuss

“It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.” – Confucius

One Video of the Week

Carol S. Dweck is a leading researcher in the field of motivation and is the Lewis and Virginia Eaton Professor of Psychology at Stanford. Her research focuses on why students succeed and how to foster their success. More specifically, her work has demonstrated the role of mindsets in success and has shown how praise for intelligence can undermine students’ motivation and learning. She has also held professorships at and Columbia and Harvard Universities, has lectured to education, business, and sports groups all over the world, and has been elected to the American Academy of Arts and Sciences and the National Academy of Sciences.

She recently won the Distinguished Scientific Contribution Award from the American Psychological Association, one of the highest awards in Psychology, as well as six other lifetime achievement awards. Last Spring, the White House held an conference on her work and both President Obama and Michelle Obama refer to her work in their speeches on education. Her work has been prominently featured in such publications as The New Yorker, Newsweek, Time, The New York Times, and The London Times, and the Manchester Guardian, with recent feature stories on her work in the San Francisco Chronicle and the Washington Post, and she has appeared on such shows as Today, Good Morning America, NPR’s Morning Edition, and 20/20.

Her bestselling book Mindset (published by Random House) has been widely acclaimed and has been translated into over 20 languages.

Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week

Phrase Making and Sentence Building from 2 to 3 years

By the time kids reach 24 months, their vocabularies have doubled in size, and they begin pairing words to create two-word phrases and sentences, such as want ball. They may say up to three hundred words and understand even more. They are watching, copying what their playmates are doing and may even (gasp!) share their toys a bit. At this point, your little one’s conceptual understanding may be taking off. 

In choosing and sharing books, keep in mind that while there’s a time and place for longer children’s literature, you shouldn’t overlook the power of five-minute stories read on a regular basis. It’s not the length of the story but the cumulative impact of engaging with you and with print and oral language that enriches a child’s life and skills. Many of us learn to love short, colorful books because they can be read in a minute. Knowing that you can make an impact in a minimal amount of time gives many parent the nudge they need to read to their child in the moment, versus putting it off in the hope of finding the “perfect” time. Once you get started, you can always do repeated reading of the same books (toddlers love and benefit from repetition) or read multiple short stories. 

Book behavior, Print Awareness and Writing:

·         Enjoys looking at books independently

·         Pretends to rea familiar books 

·         Recalls book characters and straightforward storylines

·         Recognizes logos in the environment (e.g., McDonald’s)

·         Identifies a letter or letters in their own name

·         Points to and discusses pictures in books

·         Scribbles with intentional circles and dots

Happy Reading!

  • Meenu Gera, Consulting home and school librarian reading guide

Career assessment, guidance, and placement strategies:

If you’re a student currently in Grade 11 and planning to apply to universities abroad, you’re at a critical point in your academic journey. With around 10 months before applications open, this is your window to showcase who you are beyond your grades. College admissions teams are not just looking for academic scores—they’re looking for potential, personality, and purpose.

Here are 8 things students can do to strengthen their profile for college admissions:

  1. Make a list of all co-curricular activities the student has participated in since Grade 9.
  2. Categorize these activities into hobbies and skills to better understand areas of interest and development.
  3. Identify the purpose of each activity—whether it stems from interest, showcases leadership, reflects passion, or highlights academic achievement.
  4. Focus on long-term engagement, as consistency and sustained involvement demonstrate commitment and depth.
  5. Pursue meaningful activities, such as:
    • Learning a skill (e.g., baking, writing)
    • Nurturing a talent (e.g., music, art, sports)
    • Completing online courses to deepen academic goals
    • Giving back to the community through volunteering or service
  6. Shortlist key activities—especially if the list is long—that showcase academic interest, leadership, and community service. Aim to develop these over the next 25 weeks.
  7. Create a LinkedIn profile to begin building a personal brand and professional presence online.
  8. Demonstrate key traits that universities value, such as problem-solving, risk-taking, leadership, perseverance, and consistency.

Building your profile is not about doing “more”—it’s about doing things that matter, and doing them with purpose and consistency. You already have a story—now is the time to sharpen it and show the world who you are and who you’re becoming.

Fermata Career Solutions inspires young individuals aged 13 to 30 to unlock their potential through focused and customised career and college counseling. With expertise in University Readiness, CareerGym, and Master Parenting, the experts empower you to pursue your dreams and shape your future with confidence. More about us on http://www.fermata.com

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When Translation Sparks Bigger Questions: Reflections from a Reading Session

Continuing my reflections on Booker Prize- winning literature and the relevance of Heart Lamp to students from last week’s blog, this week my thoughts return to a moment that surprised me during a discussion at my school on Deepa Bhasti’s approach to its translation.

As we explored the book, we observed how Deepa’s translation did more than carry words across languages- she carried worlds. Unlike many translators who smoothen cultural edges for “global” readers, Deepa preserved the rhythm, nuance and texture of the original Kannada stories. Her choice not to italicize Kannada words was striking.

After the reading, a student asked, “Does using Kannada or any local language words in English essays make us less global?” A simple question opened the door to a rich discussion on translation, authenticity and how we perceive the “other”. That question grew into a larger reflection: Why do we learn languages- especially foreign ones? Is it only to fit into the global economy, to grow businesses, or to become market-ready global citizens? Or can languages be bridges of connection, shaping how we perceive and understand new people, places and cultures? Do we compare and rank what we encounter, or can we approach differences with humility- connecting across them and enriching our own lives in the process?

For me, this was the moment when a reading session became more than reading- it became a mirror, a provocation, a hook for deeper dialogue. For students, such moments urge them to question and shape the kind of global citizens they wish to become. For adults, they remind us to pause and reflect on how we live in a diverse world. And for educators, they are a call to reimagine education- not merely as preparation for jobs and economies, but as preparation for life with people and planet.

Three questions for you…

How does reading literature from another culture change the way you see your own?

How can we design learning experiences that honor students’ cultural roots while also preparing them to engage meaningfully with the wider world?

When we encounter differences- in language, culture or even nature- do we compare to decide what’s “better”? or do we seek connection and mutual respect?

  • Dr Shreelakshmi Subbaswami, Alumni and Academic Director, Vijaya School Hassan, Karnataka


Dear reader,
I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.

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3-2-1 Tuesdays with Ms Niv

Issue #269, 2nd September 2025

What assumptions am I holding that might be limiting the growth of myself and/or others?

As a student: Challenge your beliefs about your own capabilities, learning methods, or what’s “too hard” for you; As a teacher: Push yourself to question preconceptions about students’ potential, effective teaching methods, or rigid curriculum approaches; As a parent: Try to recognize when your expectations, fears, or past experiences might be constraining your child’s development. Here are some provocations for you, read on.

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Three Images of the Week

Two Thoughts of the Week

“Remember, we see the world not as it is but as we are. Most of us see through the eyes of our fears and our limiting beliefs and our false assumptions.” Robin S. Sharma


“When you’re surrounded by people who share the same set of assumptions as you, you start to think that’s reality. “Emily Levine

One Video of the Week

Why do we fixate on the things we can see immediately when we crave change?

In this passionate talk Robert Greene shares the key to transforming ourselves and also talks about his own personal transformation and his path to becoming a bestselling author. About Robert Greene Robert Greene is the internationally best-selling author of The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, The 33 Strategies of War and The 50th Law (with rapper 50 Cent). His books have been translated into 17 languages. He has worked in New York as an editor and writer at several magazines; and in Hollywood as a story developer and writer. He has lived in Brixton, Paris, and Barcelona; speaks several languages, and worked as a translator. He tweets as @RobertGreene

Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week

Books at the age from 12 to 24 months:

At this age your kiddos are stacking blocks, pouring sand and water, nesting cups and hustling to combine a lot of different skills. Meantime, they’re gasping for the words they need to express themselves too. Gestures do come into play in a bigger way now. They are already doing some pretty sophisticated coordination of their sounds, gestures and eye gaze to get your attention. Your little one may even start following your directions to pick up toys or point to an object they want. All of this early speech and vocabulary learning is critical for later reading, because for an emergent reader to make sense of a word in print, they need to have heard it before. (Or, usually, many times before). Selecting books that reflect daily life deepens the learning at this age. Little narratives about kids playing, putting on clothes or having breakfast may pique your toddler’s interest. And some children’s authors also take care to make first-word books that are entertaining for parents too by building in as much humor and suspense as a board book can handle. You can even make your own books featuring pictures of friends, family and familiar places. That’s personal relevance in teaching at its best.

Selected 12–24-month milestones: Book Behaviour and Writing:

·         Handles standard books

·         Turns pages in books

·         Enjoys being read to

·         Recognizes familiar book’s cover

·         Points to and names familiar characters and objects in books

·         Points to things they want you to name

·         Holds and makes marks with crayons

It is suggested to start creating their personal library at this age by selecting appropriate titles by a professional library expert. And keep on adding titles to their library as they grow older.

Happy Reading!

Meenu Gera

Consulting home and school librarian reading guide

Career assessment, guidance, and placement strategies:

Study in Japan

Do you know?

Japan is globally recognised for technological innovation across several sectors:

1. Robotics & Automation: Especially in industrial automation robots companies like Fanuc, Yaskawa, Kawasaki, and ABB Japan dominate the market. Japan also excels in humanoid and service robots, with notable examples as  Honda’s ASIMO and SoftBank’s Pepper.

2. Automotive Industry: Japan is a global leader in automotive engineering and production.  Toyota is the largest car manufacturer, while Honda, Nissan, Subaru, and Mazda are renowned for their reliability, innovation, and fuel efficiency.

3.  High-Speed Rail (Shinkansen): Japan set global standards with the Shinkansen (bullet trains), famous for high-speed, punctuality, and safety. Japan also advises and collaborates on high-speed rail projects worldwide.

5. Precision Engineering & Materials Science: Japan excels in producing high-precision components for aerospace, medical devices, and semiconductors, along with advanced materials and specialty chemicals.

Top universities in Japan offering undergraduate and postgraduate programs in the areas of Robotics & Automation, Automotive Manufacturing, Consumer Electronics & Gaming, High-Speed Transportation, and Precision Manufacturing include:

  1. University of Tokyo
  2. Tokyo Institute of Technology
  3. Osaka University
  4. Tohoku University
  5. Nagoya University
  6. Kyoto University
  7. Kyushu University
  8. Ritsumeikan University

Fermata Career Solutions inspires young individuals aged 13 to 30 to unlock their potential through focused and customised career and college counseling. With expertise in University Readiness, CareerGym, and Master Parenting, the experts empower you to pursue your dreams and shape your future with confidence. More about us on http://www.fermata.com

I Think, I Wonder, I Ask

When a Booker Prize Winner emerges from mcity, as an educator, I feel the responsibility to make this work matter for Gen Z students… 

A sense of pride fills me when I think about the Booker Prize being awarded to a writer from my own city- Heart Lamp, by Banu Mushtaq (originally written in Kannada), translated by Deepa Bhasti. What makes this even more significant is that the book has its roots in the Bandaya Sahitya (Rebel/Dissent Literature) movement, which opened up space in Kannada Literature for stories that were unheard, raw, authentic, and deeply contextual—stories of survival, resistance, and dignity.

For me, reading Heart Lamp was not just about its literary merit or the brilliance of Deepa’s translation; it was about re-confronting the themes of resistance, power, identity, marginality, and the courage to question. 

As an educator, I felt the need to engage students with this literary work to sensitize—to help them see the links between those themes and the realities that still shape our world today. But here is the challenge- how do I make a piece of literature that feels rooted in another time and context, and connect with students today? For many of them, the struggles and issues reflected in these works are not part of their lived experience and their natural spaces of consuming content and expressing themselves are social media platforms rather than books.

Here is what I think we can do- Creating hooks and bridges—between past and present, rebellion and responsibility, rootedness and global awareness. More importantly, creating spaces for students to question, voice their thoughts, and act with responsibility. And perhaps, the real way to honor such a work is not only to celebrate its global recognition, but to use it as a mirror- asking ourselves and our students what it means for our lives here and now! 

Three questions for you…   

• Do you think questioning authority always leads to progress? Why or why not?

• The book gave space to voices that were long ignored. Whose voices do you think are missing in today’s media/social media?

• What issues from your school, city or community do you wish the world would hear?

Dr Shreelakshmi, Alumni and Academic Director, Vijaya School Hassan

Showcase: Thrive Beyond School – A unique STEAM education project for very young learners.

The children learned about fossils and paleontologists through a story and hands-on exploration. They discovered that fossils were formed when dinosaur bones were buried under mud and rocks and turned into stone over time. By pressing toy dinosaurs into clay, they understood the process of molding, and by filling the molds with plaster, they experienced casting. They observed textures, shapes, and details like toes and tails, then carefully cleaned and studied their own fossil replicas. Through drawings and reflections, they expressed what they noticed about fossilization.

Samyuktha: 7 years 4 months Neev & Mayra: 7 years Tashi: 6 years 11 months Tara: 5 years 11 months Krisha: 3 years

Dear reader,
I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.

3-2-1 Tuesdays with Ms. Niv is a newsletter you can subscribe to and enjoy your learning journey with me.

3-2-1 Tuesdays with Ms Niv

Issue #268, 26th August 2025

When you move school/home/city/country, what attitude do you take with you?

Are you curious about the new place, approach it with the thought of learning new things and take it as a way of moving onward and forward or are you anxious about the move, think that you might not be able to learn the skills needed to cope in a new enviornment and want to take your memories and materials from your current place to the new one to make it same as your earlier one?

How do you start over?

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Three Images of the Week

Two Thoughts of the Week

“Seedlings of life sometimes come out of the fertiliser of what was left behind.”
― Gillian Duce, Nuada

“Your new start is only as far away as your fear has parked it.”
― Craig D. Lounsbrough


One Video of the Week

3 lessons on starting over | Matt Field | TEDxPrague

From a remote village in Kenya to diplomatic receptions in Prague, this is the story of how starting over—again and again—shaped not just a career, but a life. Having spent over two decades navigating the process of integration in eight different countries, he is well-placed to offer answers to a range of questions: How can we approach the unknown without fear, and even with curiosity? How can we embrace the new while shaping our own path? And what does success look like in a changing world? Ambassador Matt Field OBE, a career diplomat and the British Ambassador to the Czech Republic, has undergone a transformation not just once, but multiple times, across continents, cultures, and identities.

Reading with Ms. Meenu: Tip of the week

Books at the age from 6 to 12 months:

As we continue the discussion of how the language-leaning journey continues in the latter half of the first year, through back-and-forth exchanges between you and your baby. By this age, babies may respond to simple requests, reaching for things, then passing the objects from hand to hand or hand to mouth. 

And now, believe it or not, is prime time to make read-aloud interactive. One study found evidence that when moms directed more questions to their 10-month-olds while reading stories, their children had better expressive and receptive language skills at 18 months old than children whose mothers had directed fewer questions to them.

Toddlers who’d been peppered with questions like What’s that? Where’s the doggie? Do you wanna turn the page? Ready? During storytime as babies showed a greater ability to understand what others said to them. They also showed a higher capacity to communicate their needs, thoughts, and ideas using words, phrases and gestures. So there’s value in reading books and asking related questions, even before kids can answer fully. Through being read to, babies learn language, background knowledge, the concept of print, new words and more. 

Book Behaviour

·         Grasps books using their thumbs

·         Pats, strokes, scratches books

·         Uses feet or mouth to touch books

·         Sees as well as adults

·         Directs their eye gaze to large, bright and/or high contrast pictures in books

·         Points to pictures in books

So it is really important to start reading to your child at an early stage of life.

Happy Reading!

Meenu Gera

Consulting home and school librarian reading guide

Career assessment, guidance, and placement strategies:

Get Ready for Your Dream University: What Harvard Looks For

Harvard University, founded in 1636, has an incredible story that begins with John Harvard, a young minister who, in 1638, generously left his library and half of his estate to this up-and-coming college. From its very beginning, Harvard aimed to nurture knowledgeable and virtuous leaders for the new society forming in colonial America. Today, the “Harvard brand” is recognized worldwide, representing intelligence, success, and opportunity—a true ticket to influence in politics, academia, and the business world.

Harvard looks for students who will thrive in its intellectually rigorous, socially engaged, and leadership-oriented environment. Admissions officers assess both academic excellence and personal qualities to determine who will be a good fit.

Here’s how Harvard identifies a strong fit:

  • Strong academic record (challenging courses taken and excelled in)
  • High SAT/ACT scores
  • Teacher and counselor recommendations highlighting intellectual depth
  • Evidence of critical thinking, originality, and engagement in academic pursuits
  • A student who has a strong sense of self, purpose, and commitment to making a difference, even in small ways.
  • A student who is passionate and proactive, and brings a unique voice or background to campus

Harvard seeks passionate and thoughtful individuals who will shape and be shaped by the community. 

Fermata Career Solutions inspires young individuals aged 13 to 30 to unlock their potential through focused and customised career and college counseling. With expertise in University Readiness, CareerGym, and Master Parenting, the experts empower you to pursue your dreams and shape your future with confidence. More about us on www.fermataco.com

Dear reader,
I work with the school leadership team as an advisor and collaborate with teachers as a pedagogical trainer. I also help parents as a parenting counselor and regularly engage one-on-one with students as a personal guide and mentor. This weekly newsletter shares what I read, learn, and experience.

3-2-1 Tuesdays with Ms. Niv is a newsletter you can subscribe to and enjoy your learning journey with me.